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Questions in date order.

What are the essentials of jumu'ah khutbah? I am used to attending jumu'ahs in the past where Imams, among other things, used to conclude their sermons with du'as. The other day I attended jumu'ah in a relatively new mosque where the Imam did not offer any du'as while concluding his sermon? Is this a sound practice? (#1311) 2009-02-03

Is it haraam (unlawful) to perform a non religious ceremony with a justice of piece after having done a nikaah? And is it haraam for a Muslim bride to walk down the aisle and perform this type of ceremony? (#1312) 2009-02-03

What are the procedures to follow if someone wishes to convert to Islam? (#1313) 2009-02-03

What du’as (supplication) or aayaat (verses of the Qur’an) I can recite for my son to remain in Islamic ways, and make his faith strong. I live Canada. My son is ten years old; I try my best to practice Namaz & Quraan, but still I need to know some du’as to prevent him to watch un-Islamic programs on tv like wrestling, etc. Please let me know what can I do in this respect? (#1314) 2009-02-03

Can you please clarify what Islam says about wearing a ring for men on right hand first finger because I have heard that it isn’t allowed to wear on right hand first finger? (#1315) 2009-02-03

What is the time and condition of non acceptance of repentance? Why is closed at this point? Can you explain this with reasons? (#1316) 2009-02-03

Is it a bid’ah (innovation) to give a short talk after every prayer? (#1317) 2009-02-03

I have one problem; I need your guidance in light of Islamic teachings. My parents did an engagement for me to their best friend’s daughter. After the engagement, I started talking with her on the net and on phone. But now after two years, my parents broke the engagement because of minor things like, girls family didn’t give respect to us as is expected of boy’s parents in our culture; that they are not willing to give more things in jahaaz (gifts for the bride while sending her away). They are now telling me not to marry the girl. The girl’s parents asked forgiveness for whatever mistakes they may have made, but my parents are not willing to accept their apologies. Since I started liking this girl and we have agreed to marry, am I doing anything wrong if I still go ahead with the marriage, even though my parents do not approve of it? Isn’t it wrong for me to break my engagement? Please guide me? (#1318) 2009-02-03

I am a Muslim woman and doing job in a university as a lecturer and I try to maintain Islamic manners & etiquette. Does Islam permit me to do such kind of job? Please help me.  (#1303) 2009-01-24

Is there any sahih (authentic) hadith that states that you can beat your children to learn? Please comment on this.  (#1304) 2009-01-24

Does a baby’s urine invalidate wudhu (ablution)? (#1305) 2009-01-24

I would like to get married shortly, but I'm not sure how I should go about doing this. What do I need to do to prepare myself? I'm a Muslim but I haven't always been practicing as much as i should. I really want to change this and that's why I’m asking. Your assistance is appreciated. (#1306) 2009-01-24

I and my husband has issues that cannot be resolved; we have been married for 20 years; I have a girl of 18 years and a son of 10 years; now my husband has left for Pakistan; and I am on my own. I do job and run my own life for sake of my kids. What is my position according to Islamic law; my husband has already gave me one divorce, and we performed nikah again. We still have issues unresolved; what should I do in this situation?  (#1307) 2009-01-24

What is the ruling regarding the niqab (face veil) during hajj? I wear the niqab and is it permissible to keep the it on when and after I assume Ihram? (#1308) 2009-01-24

Can you explain the contribution of Imam Abu Hanifah? (#1309) 2009-01-24

One prominent speaker recently in a speech while referring to Yazid, son of Ameer Mu'awiyah, used the formula of radiya Allaahu anhu (Allah be pleased with him); it has created a huge hue and cry; many people consider Yazid as kaafir (infidel), some others consider him as a munafiq (hypocrite) who does not deserve appreciation from a real Muslim. What is your opinion about the status of Yazid in the estimate of Muslim Ummah?

 (#1310) 2009-01-24

Can a girl in Islam shave her legs?

 (#1291) 2008-10-21

We are expecting our first child in November. If it’s a boy we want to name him Adhaan. Is there any objection naming your son Adhaan in Islam?

 (#1292) 2008-10-21

When you make du'a (supplication) to Allah, does that du'a come true quickly, or it takes time?

 (#1293) 2008-10-21

What is the importance of Salatul tasbih (Prayer of glorification)? I have been advised to pray salatul tasbih once a day or at least once in life. Can you educate me on this matter?

 (#1294) 2008-10-21

My husband is used to tell everything to his mother's sister even of matters related to husband-wife relationship, and whatever happens between us on a daily basis. When I ask him why is he telling her he either lies or says she is his best friend. If you could please clarify this issue and whether what he is doing is right or wrong?

 (#1295) 2008-10-21

Is it true that after sexual intercourse it is compulsory to clean everything you have touched in the state of impurity before having a bath with water three times?

 (#1296) 2008-10-21

My question I have asked before; however, it was not answered. Are we allowed to recycle Islamic books?  Some books are over 40 years old and ripped due to wear and tear; some contain Qur’anic verses in Arabic. How are we supposed to handle these books?  What do we do with the Quran? I have no children. When I die, what will happen to these books? Someone may throw something in the garbage. What should I do?

 (#1297) 2008-10-21

Can you try to give me detailed answer on what is meant by "Tell the believing men that they should lower their gaze..." in surat al-nnoor (i.e. Quran: 24: 30-31)? What is that the believing men should lower their gaze from? I don't know how else to put that question.

 (#1298) 2008-10-21

Who was Suhayl in the time of the prophet Muhammad?

 (#1299) 2008-10-21

Is it Islamically ok to remarry for the purpose of having a boy. My wife and I have five girls and my only son passed away last year. My wife can no longer have children. Is it permissible for me to remarry for the purpose of conceiving a boy? Do I need to have my wife’s consent to remarry?

 (#1300) 2008-10-21

I'm a member of a Da’ wah (preaching) group calling both non-Muslims and Muslims to Islam; we translate beneficial articles/books (etc.) for the benefit of those who do not know the language they are originally written. Some members of our group translate Arabic into English. I, in turn, translate the translated text into Danish. I can't translate from Arabic to Danish, because I don't speak Arabic. So: Arabic > English > Danish.

But a friend of mine said that it might be risky to do such a thing, because I translate some of the Qur’anic verses into Danish from the English text. He advised me to stop translating this way, or wait till I can translate more professionally in the future. But I'm not sure. Should I continue translating - with the intention to seek Allah's pleasure, thus guiding people - or should I stop translating, because of the risk of mistranslating the Qur’an. What would you - as a learned scholar - advice me to do; should I continue translating or not?

 (#1301) 2008-10-21

Dear scholar, I am married and was confused about a question that many people have had 2 different responses. Is my wife's sister's husband a mahram (close relation one is not allowed to marry) to my wife or a non-mahram. Can my wife talk to her sister\'s husband alone in seclusion and must she cover her awra (parts of body one must cover in front of strangers) when he is in presence?

 (#1282) 2008-10-15

Unless from a medical point of view, is it stated anywhere in Quran or Hadith that a man cannot have sexual intercourse with his wife throughout the pregnancy right into the delivery time.

 (#1283) 2008-10-15

Is egg donation allowed in Islam?

 (#1284) 2008-10-15

What is Islamic ruling concerning baby showers?

 (#1285) 2008-10-15

Is it true that if two people committed zina (fornication) with each other that they should not get married?  Why?  What if both people were deeply remorseful and repented, and asked for forgiveness is there no respite for them?  Isn't it said that one should marry the one their heart desires over some other person? Thanks for your reply.

 (#1286) 2008-10-15

Is it permissible to use an after shave that contains alcohol?  Does the type of alcohol contained in the after shave make a difference?  I have asked around and have received conflicting answers.  Please advise.

 (#1287) 2008-10-15

I have only one question. If a father is not willing to marry his daughter and giving reason that the personality of the person is not attractive and he is dark in complexion; he is otherwise employed, educated and shareef (noble). Who can help that girl to get married to that person? What our religion says? Does fathers presence is obligatory during nikah (marriage contract)? What if no blood relatives are present as father doesn’t want anyone to participate?

 (#1288) 2008-10-15

Our daughter decided to move out and rent an apartment with her friend in down town area.  She is currently in University second year. My husband and I don’t approve of it at all, and advised her not to move out and if she did, we don’t have anything to do with her.  Her friend is also from a Muslim family, but they don’t practice Islam and don’t see any problem with this.  Do you think we are doing the right think, please help us.

 (#1289) 2008-10-15

I was in Saudi Arabia and we went to Makka for 3 days to perform umrah. I put on ihram at the mikaat (appointed station). When we reached Makka and went to the hotel I discovered that my menstruation had begun. I couldn’t perform umrah and after 3 days we had to leave Makka. What penalty is due from me? Can I pay it while here, in Canada?

 (#1290) 2008-10-15

I am wondering if drawing pictures of animals and people is allowed in Islam. I know that drawing pictures of our prophets is Haraam.

 (#1266) 2008-09-24

After iftaar (breaking of the fast), f you masturbate does it ruin your month of Ramadhan?

 (#1267) 2008-09-24

When do I stop eating suhur (pre-dawn meal) in the month of Ramadan?

 (#1268) 2008-09-24

If you take out blood does it break the roza (fast)?

 (#1269) 2008-09-24

Is it permissible for a boy to kiss his fiancé after paying dowry but before the marriage consummation?

 (#1270) 2008-09-24

In answer to question no 1169, you replied that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, “Guard your private parts except from your marriage partners.”. Can I know its reference?

 (#1271) 2008-09-24

I am a student and I have received student loan (OSAP-Ontario student assistance program). Do I have to pay zakah for that loan?

 (#1272) 2008-09-24

What is the du'a (supplication) one should say when they get married? (#1273) 2008-09-24

Is it permissible able to give zakah to non-Muslims?

 (#1274) 2008-09-24

I would like to know about shirk (polytheism) If you did shirk on purpose , and you already knew that is bad; if Allah doesn’t forgive that sin, then what should I do to get forgiveness and get to paradise from Allah?

 (#1275) 2008-09-24

Regarding Dog Training by a Muslim, can he get paid for the training?

Running a Dog Kennel to keep dogs for a short period, when the owners go out for a holiday.

 (#1276) 2008-09-24

I'm fasting; I take my birth control pills at 2pm everyday; I do this without drinking water as the pill is very tiny, so I just swallow it; is this ok to do while fasting? I 'm a born muslim my husband is a covert; I live with my in-laws who are Hindus; they cook for us because we both work full-time they don't cook halal meat, is it ok to eat the meat they cook after I break my fast? Please answer as soon as possible, as I'm fasting and I need to know what's right?

 (#1277) 2008-09-24

I am living in Sweden; people here drink beer a lot; they throw the bear cans outside, or in waste bin specially on weekends. I can earn some money by collecting these cans and putting them in the recycle machines at different stores. I want to know if there is some objection in the islamic teachings in doing such a job. In Sweden the cost of the cans or plastic bottles which can be recycled is included with the drink and is taken from the customer. It means that the buyer has already paid the cost in the total price. If he throws away the cans or bottles, it means he doesn’t care for that 1 krone (Swedish currency). This payment that you get on putting the cans and bottles in recycle machine is called pant and is mentioned on the packing of cans. I will be very thankful to you for your help in this issue.

 (#1278) 2008-09-24

How should we balance the optional prayers during the month of Ramadhan (especially in the last ten nights)? Pls keep in mind that many of us have a daily life, which may include education, work etc, where we must be able to function. Considering that in the next few years the time between taraweeh and Qiyaam will be getting shorter and we want to gain the most reward possible also.  Jazaka Allah.

 (#1279) 2008-09-24

Me and my wife are happily married and have two children together. We recently had a heated argument and as a result I said to her that you are haraam for me as I was extremely angry. I realized my mistake soon afterwards and I tried to seek Allah's forgiveness. By saying these words to my wife, has it impaired the validity of our marriage? Please keep in mind that there was absolutely no thought/intention of divorce. Also, tell me what I need to do in order to compensate for my wrong action? Jazaka Allaahu khayran (may Allah reward you with the best).

 (#1280) 2008-09-24

If a woman is menstruating in the last 10 days of Ramadan what can she read or do to continue to get the blessings of the month or is she deprived of those blessings?

 (#1281) 2008-09-24

I made a promise with my mother in December 2007 that I will come back to Pakistan as soon as possible. I settled here for better future for my children, though I was in much better position in Pakistan. Since my mother knows this fact she asked me to come back. I met her in person in December 2007, and asked her to please allow me sometime to fulfill this promise. But unfortunately my mother passed away in Feb 2008.

 (#1247) 2008-09-20

Is it alright for a Muslim to give donations and help out with the building of Christian churches, Hindu temples, etc?  Thank you very much.

 (#1248) 2008-09-20

What is the most appropriate and respectful way to identify an area for prayer in a workplace?   There is a colleague at work who is observing Ramadan and I would like to create a respectful do no disturbed sign so that people will not walk in on her during prayers  (#1249) 2008-09-20

Quick question: During Ramadan and other times when I watch TV or movies and a bad part comes up I change the channel or look away but I was wondering does it ruin your fast or is it okay because I change when such things occur?

 (#1250) 2008-09-20

I have vaginismus which means that when my husband tries to penetrate me, my vagina muscles contract, I have been given a set of 4 penis shaped cones in varying sizes to use to cure the condition, am I allowed to use these cones since without it we can't have intercourse? And would I have to perform ghusl after using the cones?

 (#1251) 2008-09-20

 My question is what is the difference between sadaqah and zakah?  Is sadaqah obligatory on Muslims as well?

 (#1252) 2008-09-20

Can we read Qur’anic verses and ahaadith on computer during menses? (#1253) 2008-09-20

Is it haraam to cook lunch for your child because they are not fasting for no  valid reasons.

 (#1254) 2008-09-20

What is the understanding in Islam of 'YAA RASULA ALLAH' I have heard it said many a times, I understand YA means present and alive. Is it ok to say this?

 (#1255) 2008-09-20

Is it permissible for a woman to touch the Qur’an with a cloth during menstruation?

 (#1256) 2008-09-20

Can I use my RRSP account to pay my wife her mahr(dower)  by transferring the mahr amount from my RRSP account to her RRSP account?

 (#1257) 2008-09-20

Is it necessary to take complete bath after inter course for women?

 (#1258) 2008-09-20

I have read your answers regarding the reading of the Quran from your hands while attending a taraaweeh prayer.

My question is can a person read the translation of the Quran to understand what he is saying in his prayer? For example, will it be permissible if I join the taraaweeh that is performed on TV and read the English translation while praying? I find it very satisfying to not only listen but understand with translation what the Imam is saying and I find that my taraweeh prayers are much more meaningful and enriching. My first language is not Arabic. 

 (#1259) 2008-09-20

Can a Husband and wife offer their taraaweeh prayer together? If yes, then the husband must be the Imam is it? Please clarify?

 (#1260) 2008-09-20

Your answer to question #1222 clarifies the issue that an Imam, or an ndividual offering prayers alone can hold the Quran and pray from it in taraaweeh. However, while in congregation, is it permissible for a person other than the Imam to hold the Quran and read from it exactly what the Imam is reciting in taraaweeh? I have seen some women do this in the mosque and would like to know if this is allowed.

 (#1261) 2008-09-20

Can we give money for hafiz-e-Quran (one who has memorized the entire Qur’an) who leads us in taraaweeh prayers? I am in need of a detailed answer since we give to hafiz at our own and he never demands it?

 (#1264) 2008-09-20

When you are on pension and due to sickness you cannot fast, are you still entitled to take many out for the poor?

 (#1265) 2008-09-20

Is it a must to give zakah for a property every year?

 (#1263) 2008-09-20

I have a question that has been bothering me for years.  I believe I suffer from anxiety and it manifests itself by extreme sweating of my head.  During salah (Prayer), usually when in congregation, I cannot control the sweat and it literally drips of my head and into my face.  Is it permissible for me to carry a handkerchief with my during salah and wipe the sweat ?

The more I sweat, the more self conscious I become which leads to even more sweating.  It has affected many aspects of life and even sometimes makes me hesitant to pray in congregation. I know this is wrong, but  the anxiety it causes is quite severe.  Any tips?

 (#1230) 2008-09-14

Can we cut or hair /nails while having menstruation, before bathing.

 (#1231) 2008-09-14

This is regarding the naming of one's child. If due to ignorance, we now feel the name given to our son is not right, it does not have the right meaning as per the Quran. We wish to change the name of our son now. He is 15 years old. Please advise if it is Ok to change now and how do we go about it?

 (#1232) 2008-09-14

I have a very important matter that I pray that you are able to help me in.

 I have been given a marriage proposal which I would like to pursue. But the girl does not wear Hijab. She used to wear it previously but was abused and attacked for wearing it (we live in the west), and is now scared to wear it. She says she does not feel strong enough to wear it yet but insh\'Allah she will one day. But not straight after our marriage. Should I marry this woman even though she does not wear Hijab but practices her religion (Salah, sawm, zakah, etc) in every other way?

 (#1233) 2008-09-14

Usually people are keeping animal or bird idols in houses for children playing, they are small and only for children to keep them busy. Is it correct or wrong in Islam? And prying can be correct in those Rooms in which such Idols are available or human pictures are mounted on wall?

 (#1234) 2008-09-14

Every year I give donations for mosque and zakah. I haven't been claiming the income tax receipts. But for the last couple of years I have been claiming the income tax receipts for lillah (for sake of Allah) and zakah. The money that I'm getting back on the donated portion; I have been giving it back to the mosque as lillah.  Is this action appropriate, please advise.

 (#1235) 2008-09-14

Can we hold and read Quran while in taraweeh prayers? Specially women who offer taraweeh prayers all by their self at home and are not hafiz e Quran can they do so?

 (#1236) 2008-09-14

After vaginal secretion (not caused by any sexual desire, white fluid that comes out automatically sometimes) is it necessary to perform a bath to be purified for prayers, or only wudhu and cleaning the cloths would do? What about the secretion female have caused by sexual desire or arousal, but not ending in orgasm or intercourse?

 (#1237) 2008-09-14

According to my Sister-in-law, who’s a doctor, brushing teeth during Ramadan is not allowed. I gave her reference of your site and your answers to such similar questions, and still she doesn’t agree. She says that the 'glucose' or the sugar in the toothpaste is immediately absorbed in the mouth. Hence it should not be used. I told her about Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) brushing his teeth several times a day during fast, and her argument is that there was no toothpaste in those days. Please, clarify.

 (#1238) 2008-09-14

I have a question pertaining to Zakah. 3 years ago, I purchased 2 investment properties for the purpose of renting them out in order to pay off the mortgage. My intention at the time was to keep these properties to supplement my retirement income. Now, I want to rid myself of these properties, as I am understand that Riba is haram. I paid the down-payment on these properties with my line of credit (debt) and have been using the income received by the tenants to pay the mortgage company. Specifically, each house cost $275K, I paid $15K per house from my line of credit as a down-payment. Money does come out of my pocket monthly to cover bills. I am in the process of selling. Do I have to pay Zakah for the 3 years in question? Also, what amount is used as a calculation when the houses are sold in order to pay Zakah.

 (#1239) 2008-09-14

If I get sick but am still fasting, can I drink couph syrup or take pills?

 (#1240) 2008-09-14

I have two questions related to fasting. I have asthma and have to use inhaler, while fasting if I use it does it break my fast. Also does chewing gum break fast?

 (#1241) 2008-09-14

I'm a non-Muslim with a number of Muslim friends and co-workers. Do I wish them a good Ramadan? Happy Ramadan?  Have a good fast? Or do I say nothing at all?

 (#1242) 2008-09-14

If we masturbate after dusk, will my fast be ruined in Ramadan?

 (#1243) 2008-09-14

I’m 42 years old and was diagnosed with diabetes 6 months back. Is roza (fasting) compulsory for me?

 (#1244) 2008-09-14

If one was to make up for a missed fast by feeding the poor, how much money is expected to be given per fast?  Where would one donate this money?

 (#1245) 2008-09-14

I would like to know whether a donation from a non-Muslim can be accepted towards the building of a mosque? Your response would be appreciated.

 (#1246) 2008-09-14

I have a question that has been bothering me for years.  I believe I suffer from anxiety and it manifests itself by extreme sweating of my head.  During salah (Prayer), usually when in congregation, I cannot control the sweat and it literally drips of my head and into my face.  Is it permissible for me to carry a handkerchief with my during salah and wipe the sweat ?

The more I sweat, the more self conscious I become which leads to even more sweating.  It has affected many aspects of life and even sometimes makes me hesitant to pray in congregation. I know this is wrong, but  the anxiety it causes is quite severe.  Any tips?

 (#1213) 2008-09-07

If we masturbate after dusk, will my fast be ruined in Ramadan?

 (#1214) 2008-09-07

Can we cut or hair /nails while having menstruation, before bathing.

 (#1215) 2008-09-07

This is regarding the naming of one's child. If due to ignorance, we now feel the name given to our son is not right, it does not have the right meaning as per the Quran. We wish to change the name of our son now. He is 15 years old. Please advise if it is Ok to change now and how do we go about it?

 (#1216) 2008-09-07

I have a very important matter that I pray that you are able to help me in.

 I have been given a marriage proposal which I would like to pursue. But the girl does not wear Hijab. She used to wear it previously but was abused and attacked for wearing it (we live in the west), and is now scared to wear it. She says she does not feel strong enough to wear it yet but insh\'Allah she will one day. But not straight after our marriage. Should I marry this woman even though she does not wear Hijab but practices her religion (Salah, sawm, zakah, etc) in every other way?

 (#1217) 2008-09-07

Usually people are keeping animal or bird idols in houses for children playing, they are small and only for children to keep them busy. Is it correct or wrong in Islam? And prying can be correct in those Rooms in which such Idols are available or human pictures are mounted on wall?

 (#1218) 2008-09-07

After vaginal secretion (not caused by any sexual desire, white fluid that comes out automatically sometimes) is it necessary to perform a bath to be purified for prayers, or only wudhu and cleaning the cloths would do? What about the secretion female have caused by sexual desire or arousal, but not ending in orgasm or intercourse?

 (#1219) 2008-09-07

I have a question pertaining to Zakah. 3 years ago, I purchased 2 investment properties for the purpose of renting them out in order to pay off the mortgage. My intention at the time was to keep these properties to supplement my retirement income. Now, I want to rid myself of these properties, as I am understand that Riba is haram. I paid the down-payment on these properties with my line of credit (debt) and have been using the income received by the tenants to pay the mortgage company. Specifically, each house cost $275K, I paid $15K per house from my line of credit as a down-payment. Money does come out of my pocket monthly to cover bills. I am in the process of selling. Do I have to pay Zakah for the 3 years in question? Also, what amount is used as a calculation when the houses are sold in order to pay Zakah.

 (#1220) 2008-09-07

Every year I give donations for mosque and zakah. I haven't been claiming the income tax receipts. But for the last couple of years I have been claiming the income tax receipts for lillah (for sake of Allah) and zakah. The money that I'm getting back on the donated portion; I have been giving it back to the mosque as lillah.  Is this action appropriate, please advise.

 (#1221) 2008-09-07

Can we hold and read Quran while in taraweeh prayers? Specially women who offer taraweeh prayers all by their self at home and are not hafiz e Quran can they do so?

 (#1222) 2008-09-07

According to my Sister-in-law, who’s a doctor, brushing teeth during Ramadan is not allowed. I gave her reference of your site and your answers to such similar questions, and still she doesn’t agree. She says that the 'glucose' or the sugar in the toothpaste is immediately absorbed in the mouth. Hence it should not be used. I told her about Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) brushing his teeth several times a day during fast, and her argument is that there was no toothpaste in those days. Please, clarify.

 (#1223) 2008-09-07

If one was to make up for a missed fast by feeding the poor, how much money is expected to be given per fast?  Where would one donate this money?

 (#1224) 2008-09-07

I’m 42 years old and was diagnosed with diabetes 6 months back. Is roza (fasting) compulsory for me?

 (#1225) 2008-09-07

I'm a non-Muslim with a number of Muslim friends and co-workers. Do I wish them a good Ramadan? Happy Ramadan?  Have a good fast? Or do I say nothing at all?

 (#1226) 2008-09-07

I have two questions related to fasting. I have asthma and have to use inhaler, while fasting if I use it does it break my fast. Also does chewing gum break fast?

 (#1227) 2008-09-07

If I get sick but am still fasting, can I drink couph syrup or take pills?

 (#1228) 2008-09-07

I would like to know whether a donation from a non-Muslim can be accepted towards the building of a mosque? Your response would be appreciated.

 (#1229) 2008-09-07

Is Rasullah alive? Some people think that he is present at Islamic gatherings (functions) where ta’zeem (ritual of reverencing the Prophet by sending salutations and benedictions to him) is performed. I am asking this question once again, in order to seek clarification of this important matter.

 (#1204) 2008-08-30

Is it necessary for a female to take a bath before she can pray after she has masturbated, provided no man has touched her and has no contact with semen?

 (#1205) 2008-08-30

This question is addressed to Shaikh Kutty. I would like to know if during your work day in Ramadan, if you are allowed to gargle with mouth wash given that you have to interact with people constantly. Thank you and I anxiously await the response of the Shaikh. Keep up the good work and may Allah swt bless everyone connected with the IIT. (#1206) 2008-08-30

If father is not willing to marry his daughter and giving reason that the personality of the person is not attractive and he is dark in complexion. He is, otherwise, employed, educated and shareef (of noble descent). Who can help that girl to get married to that person? What does our religion say? Is a father’s presence obligatory during nikah? What if no blood relative is present as father doesn’t want anyone to participate; can a family friend help and get the nikah done?

 (#1207) 2008-08-30

Is it permissible to read any ayat (verse) of the Quran during the menstrual period just orally without touching the Qur’an?

 (#1208) 2008-08-30

Can you name your child a non muslim name? (#1209) 2008-08-30

We are building one primarily to serve the rural poor in Bangladesh. We will take funds from privileged people to help maintain the clinic, medication costs, nurse/doctor/'s salary, etc. We will not refuse care to privileged persons as their money will be used to allow us to provide free healthcare to the poor. Can we use zakah money to build the clinic?

 (#1210) 2008-08-30

Is zakah to be paid yearly for 12 months salary or one month and what is the percentage?

 (#1211) 2008-08-30

I am 4 months pregnant with my first baby and would like to fast Ramadan this year but my husband doesn't want me to as the chemical imbalance caused by fasting may harm the baby especially because the days will be long this year. Is this true? What evidence is in the Quran tells me if I can or cannot fast? If I cannot fast, what should I do? I don't know 60 poor people to feed.

 (#1212) 2008-08-30

Dealing with the niqaab (face veil), what do we say to the comments of Ibn Abaas and Abeedah Asalmaani in surat al-ahzaab, ayah 59, from the tafseer of ibn katheer that women should cover everything except one eye?

May Allah guide us to the truth, aamin.

 (#1202) 2008-06-05

I use the western commode for urinating while washing my self i feel doubt as though some very small drops have fallen on me, and I am not even sure exactly where but i am careful to my full extent but still i get this nagging feeling that I am not pure; please help me.

 (#1195) 2008-06-04

My husband watches pornography on our computer. I have asked him many times not to do so but he did not listen. Now I have installed a software that prevents him from doing so. Is it wrong of me to force this upon him?

 (#1196) 2008-06-04

Does Allah forgive all sins? What to do to get forgiveness from Allah?

 (#1197) 2008-06-04

Is it not wrong to call oneself sayyid (noble one) and claim that one is a direct descendant of Prophet PBUH? I don’t think this is something that the Prophet PBUH would have condoned. We will be judged by our actions and not by whose descendant we are. What difference does it make? 

 (#1198) 2008-06-04

Someone told me that if husband/wife were to miss tawaf al wada (farewell tawaf) after umra/hajj, they can not have conjugal relationship till they perform it. Is it true?

 (#1199) 2008-06-04

If I understand in the Qur’an and tafsir, Abraham and his son Ismael (peace be upon them) raised the foundations of the Ka’ba that were beneath the sand. I wonder who laid its foundations; was it Adam? Also, I would appreciate, if you can refer me to some sources.  

 (#1200) 2008-06-04

Is it the duty of all Moslems to convert the world?

 (#1201) 2008-06-04

Is there any reasoning mentioned anywhere for changing the Qibla from Jerusalem to Mecca?

 (#1189) 2008-04-24

Does Allah forgive all sins?  What to do to get forgiveness from Allah?

 (#1190) 2008-04-24

Please can you help me to solve my difficulty; why cannot I read about ibada from hadiths reported by Fatima, Hasan, Husain? Did not our Prophet (pbuh) say that they should be our teachers? I love Fatima: She is one of four best women. Where do we read about her teachings?

 (#1191) 2008-04-24

While replying on question #941 about niqab, you stated that commenting on Qur’anic verse about dress, Ibn Abbas, (May Allah be pleased with them) said,  “What is to be covered is all of the body except face and hands.” Please inform us of the source of this comment (which tafsir or hadith book). May Allah grant us all knowledge—aameen.

 (#1192) 2008-04-24

If a husband says to his wife "get out from my house" in anger and keeping in mind that for a moment he don't want to see his wife for a while. Later on, after a moment, he is willing to live with his wife; is this considered a divorce?

 (#1193) 2008-04-24

Would it be wrong to describe Islam as a 7th century tribal religion?

 (#1194) 2008-04-24

I know a little on fiqh of menstruation. However, I know that woman are not supposed to pray, touch Qur’an and so forth while menstruating. My question is if women are allowed to clip their nails, cut their hair, or take shower during the days of menstruation?

 (#1180) 2008-04-17

Is it haraam (unlawful) for a woman to tie her tubes?

 (#1181) 2008-04-17

How to clean myself after having a bad dream or after masturbating? Is it enough to wash away the semen with water or do I have to use soap? Sometimes when I look at my under- wear, I see a white stain in it; how should I clean it? Is it semen?

 (#1182) 2008-04-17

My question: Does getting an injection during a visit to the doctor nullify your fast?  Please explain the conditions of this.

 (#1183) 2008-04-17

I am a 27 year old college student. I wanted to know the answer to the question Muslims present a terrorist threat to American people and their community.

 (#1184) 2008-04-17

Is it necessary to remove all pubic hair, under arms hair, stomach hands after all period, ihtilaam (wet dream), sex, and even if naturally without sexual orgasm, due to anxiety and obsession in doing something the white and transparent fluids come out?

 (#1185) 2008-04-17

I am a sister who regularly attends the musalla for sala on my campus. Recently the barrier in our musalla was opened to provide an open space for the sisters to pray without a barrier. Some brothers have objected to the sisters praying sunna in that open space, saying it is not right for a sister to pray sunna without a barrier. Is this true? Do I have no right to pray sunnah in a barrier free zone?

 (#1186) 2008-04-17

What is the right way of reading witr sala? I have seen different people pray their witr in different ways.

 (#1187) 2008-04-17

 Are you allowed to pray salatul jumu’a before zawaal (sun moves away from the meridian)?  If so, is there any precedent for this or evidence upon which you base your answer?

 (#1188) 2008-04-17

Can I drink the breast milk of my wife? She says she will not allow it unless I show her proof.

 (#1168) 2008-04-09

Is having sex with wife completely naked a sin?

 (#1169) 2008-04-09

How old do you have to be to have a walima (wedding feast)? (#1170) 2008-04-09

Is it wrong to speak a language other than Arabic?

 (#1171) 2008-04-09

My sister is experiencing menstrual bleeding for over months know can she pray because it never stops?

 (#1172) 2008-04-09

Insha Allah (God-willing), I hope, you are doing fine and in good health. Allah has blessed us with a baby few weeks back—al-hamdu li Allah (praise be to Allah). I would like to know if I am allowed to sleep with my wife on the same bed (not doing any intercourse) before the 40 days are over.

 (#1173) 2008-04-09

I am in an online relationship with a guy that respects me a lot. It has been 3 years since I know him. We have not seen another other then pictures and webcam. We both live far. The only we contact each other is via emails, calls or chat. I am 16 years old and he is few years older then me. I come from a very religious family and I am very religious as well. And he also comes from a good family; but he is very nice guy and he never talked with me anything wrong or dirty. He respects me a lot. I am not sure if it is wrong for me to be in this relationship according to view of Islam?

 (#1174) 2008-04-09

What is the teaching of Islam about palmistry? Is it true or false? Are we allowed to practice t or visit a palmist?

 (#1175) 2008-04-09

I would like to inquire the differences and similarities between kosher and halaal products. Thus, are kosher products also halaal? Moreover, many fruit yogurts contain gelatin derived from bovine. Is it permissible to eat them?

 (#1176) 2008-04-09

The birth of my 1st child is in the summer of this year. My mother in law has made an arts and craft cross stitch of Winnie-the-pooh and His friends (including a character of piglet) to put in the baby's room. It is colorful and I think nice. Is it un-Islamic to have the character of a pig in the baby's room? It is a cartoon character and I am not worshipping this?  

 (#1177) 2008-04-09

My husband firmly believes that his Islamic duty is to provide for the children and that's it.  He has no role in their upbringing or daily routines whatsoever. I don't believe my Islam says that. Please provide me with some authentic hadiths and Qur’anic proof about the duty and role of the husband in his children's upbringing.

 (#1178) 2008-04-09

I am a teacher in primary level.  The pupils usually pay for the cost of their examination papers and last term when all their paper expenses were paid, some money remained with which I bought drinks and snacks so that they could have a small party.  My concern is that I ate and drank a little from these and only later on did I realize that I ate from their money. Am I at fault? What should I do? It is to be noted that these kids are between 6 to 8 years old. May Allah bless you always--Aameen.

 (#1179) 2008-04-09

I was wondering in certain situations, if one commits suicide without killing anyone else, can it still be considered jihad? For instance, at Guatanamo Bay Detention center, some Muslim men killed themselves in order to bring public attention and political will to stop the injustices faced by Muslims at the detention center. So, let’s say a young Muslim man hangs himself knowing that it will one day help stop future injustices committed against Muslims by his government and hopefully publicly expose injustices committed against him because of his religion, can that person be considered a Martyr?

 (#1161) 2008-04-03

Unfortunately I have found my wife engage in adultery with another Muslim man since 2004. Shamelessly they also took many snaps at different occasions during adultery and they kept contact with one another. I found their snaps and letters in the hidden drawer of the closet of my wife. These acts of my wife have broken my heart into pieces. Pls. tell me if I can go against my wife with the charges of adultery on the basis of those snaps and letters?

 (#1162) 2008-04-03

My uncle has been married 30 years to a Swiss woman (who had converted to Islam) with whom he had 2 daughters. One daughter decided to marry a Christian boy. My uncle threatened to divorce his wife if his daughter married the boy. The daughter decided to marry the boy and subsequently my uncle divorced his wife. I felt so sorry for my aunt and my cousins. He cut off all access with his daughters too. He has written a will, and left all his money to Islamic charity. Are not his daughters entitled to his inheritance? Or, is it nobler to leave all your money to charity?

 (#1163) 2008-04-03

My young daughter needs a medicine that unfortunately contains alcohol. I don't know of any substitution for it. She needs four drops three times per day. Is it just haaram (unlawful) or is there any kind of exception?

 (#1164) 2008-04-03

We are going to India and on our way—insha Allah—we intend to perform ‘umra; we will be going first to Madina. My question is can we put ihram from masjid al-nabavi /hotel and go to airport, or do we need to go dhu al-hulayfa

 (#1166) 2008-04-03

Assalamalaikum! This is quite urgent and I am sure your answer to my question will be beneficial to the entire Muslim community. Almost all soaps manufactured here contain an animal by-product (sodium tallowate) in them. They also contain glycerin which may come from plants or animals. Is it haraam to use them? 100% vegetable soaps are also available in the market, but they are obviously much more expensive. Same is the case with creams, lotions and cosmetics. I heard someone quoting another Shaikh who said it is ok to use them since th animal by-products completely lose their original state or composition in the entire process of manufacture. Can you please clarify this? Jazakallah Khair.

 (#1167) 2008-04-03

Are we allowed to celebrate the Prophet’s birth? What if we just do du’a on that day?

 (#1159) 2008-03-27

I am 45 years old. My menstrual periods used to last for 6-7 days, but now since 2-3 months it lasts for 9-10 days. I am confused what to do, should I leave sala for 6-7 days only or 9-10 days. Please advice me.

 (#1156) 2008-03-26

Assalaamu alaikum wa rahmatulla

I hope my question reaches you in good health and Iman. I will insha Allah move from Dubai to a place in BC called Campbell river; there is no mosque or Musalla in this city as there are no Muslims there. Do I have to leave my work at the time of Jumu’a prayer although I won't go for prayer in a mosque, or should simply pray Dhuhr.

Secondly, I am not aware of the Food available in that area; but as long as there are no Muslims there, I won’t have access to Halal food there. So is it ok to eat outdoors Beef and Pizza as I won't cook at home? Your reply is appreciated. I feel upset because those concerns.

Jazaakumulla khayran (may Allah reward you).

 (#1157) 2008-03-26

I would like to know I have  been widow since September 18 last year. Is my ‘idda period (i.e. mourning) over now?

 (#1158) 2008-03-26

Asslamualaikum! I have read every answer on this site but what I am looking for I didn't get.  I have three kids one 4 yrs, second 2 yrs and third one 3 months.  My question is whenever I am offering my Prayer my kids always roam around and scream as you know this is how kids play.  It is difficult for me to leave children alone while I pray. So, while offering my prayers I become distracted and it becomes difficult for me to concentrate, and sometimes, I only pray fardh Prayer; is it for me to pray only Fardh? My second question: When my younger children try to disturb my 3 months old daughter I sometimes, say "AHHAMM" to warn them during my prayer; is it for me to say to warn them during Prayer?  Please respond to me as soon as possible, for because of this whenever I finish my Prayer I don’t feel satisfaction as I think I didn’t offer my prayer correctly. I don’t have any other relatives live with me, and I am the only caretaker for my kids as my husband is busy with work. Please answer me soon.  May Allah bless you.

 (#1155) 2008-03-25

I got married and before the wedding ceremony I slept with my husband but I am still virgin and it was more than once but he was careful that I keep my virginity before the ceremony. We fought and he divorced me. He went away to get married from his country. Do I need to wait for 3 months before I can get married again (since I am still virgin). And in case he comes back, how should we get together again. Thank you.

 (#1141) 2008-03-20

How can God place humans in hell knowing that they would have done sin since He has fore- knowledge of what they do?

 (#1154) 2008-03-20

Is it wrong to work on Friday?

 (#1143) 2008-03-20

My wife and I have decided against circumcising our boy. After researching, we do not find the health reasons compelling and believe that it should be his decision to make when he is older. I have heard that very few men who are not circumcised ever need to or want to when they are older. I have been told by my doctor that a circumcision has no bearing on cleanliness providing a male bathes regularly which seems quite reasonable.  I was wondering if Islamic teachings on this custom are as relevant to us here in Canada as they might have been long ago?  I have not seen anything in Koran about having to circumcise boys.  Can a male be uncircumcised in this day and age and still accepted as a Muslim?  Have other Canadian Muslim parents made this same choice?

 (#1153) 2008-03-20

I am a married and was wondering if I am allowed to take a shower with my spouse?

 (#1145) 2008-03-20

My father died recently, and my mother, who is in her seventies, is mourning and she wants to travel to Pakistan, her home country, with my sister: Is it allowed for her to travel and complete her ‘idda there?

 (#1146) 2008-03-20

I am seventeen years old and my parents got me to read my nikah (marriage contract) when I went back home; now I am back in Canada and it’s been a year since I’ve been away from my fiancé and I’m not going to get married until five years from now. I was forced to marry her; now I am slowly being involved in another relationship; what should I do?

 (#1147) 2008-03-20

Is it required to brush one's teeth before one performs fajr prayers?

 (#1148) 2008-03-20

I am a bit confused. There is a sister I proposed marriage to and she agreed. So I went to see her family (parents) and told them my intentions and we agreed on a date for me to come with my parents. On that day over 12 people were around and the father agreed that I can marry her. But the mahr was not discussed in that gathering. Can I consider my self married to the sister?

 (#1149) 2008-03-20

I just have found out that my husband has been committing adultery for the last six years of our marriage with different women.  I have requested a divorce. However, he has promised that he will change and is repentant.  Unfortunately, I am no longer able to trust him and do not feel he is sincere.  In this type of circumstance would a divorce be considered under just grounds? Also, he is creating mental anguish by telling me that Allah will reward me for keeping the family together.  I feel he is manipulating me because he knows I am God-fearing.

 (#1150) 2008-03-20

I committed adultery and I’m now pregnant; I really do repent, but my boyfriend wants to get married but not yet because he is saying this isn't the right way, but now that I’m pregnant I cannot have an abortion; I have no one else to talk about this and really need to know what I should do and what’s the best course of action to follow?

 (#1151) 2008-03-20

My husband has admitted to committing adultery.  He also said he was wrong and will not do it again.  The problem now is that I have lost my trust in him and want a divorce.  He will not give me a divorce because he said he still loves me. We have been separated for over a year now and I have not had any maintenance from him all this time.  Can I go to the Imam in our community and ask him to give me a divorce?  I have had trust issues with my husband before this and it is very difficult for me to trust him again. He always tells me that he will change and he never does. Thank you for your response, insha-Allah.

 (#1152) 2008-03-20

I am constantly disturbed by nagging doubts and whisperings. Can you tell me any du̒a that I can read in order to guard against these?

 (#1139) 2008-02-05

Can you tell me about Islamic teachings about dogs? My question pertains to the alleged incident of a Muslim cab driver refusing to allow a blind woman accompanied by a seeing-eye dog into his cab. I would like to know more specifically whether the Islamic teachings about dogs forbid any contact with dogs, and whether the taxi driver’s behavior is mandated by Islam. This issue of dogs and where they fit in for the lives of Muslims in a society that greatly values these creatures of God has long been debated and needs a definitive answer.  Please provide.

 (#1140) 2008-02-05

Can I give Zaka to my relative to perform hajj, if he has not already done it?

 (#1133) 2008-01-31

Am I allowed to give my zaka to a poor student who is unable to pay his college fees or other expenses related to his study?

 (#1134) 2008-01-31

When we should pay the RRSP zaka? Is it once every year or at the end when you get this money back?

 (#1135) 2008-01-31

My question is regarding the handling of bed linen after intercourse.  My husband insists that I must remove and wash ALL bed linen AFTER EACH incident of intercourse.  So, as a result, I find myself sometimes washing the entire bed linens up 3 to 4 times a week.  Also, my husband will not come into contact of any kind with the sheets if they have not been washed after he does his washing.  Also, my husband insists that I label the clothes baskets in the house as "clean" and "dirty".  He will not allow me to place the clothes that have been removed from the clothes dryer into the same basket that I brought them in because he claims that basket is "unclean".  He insists that I must get another basket labeled "clean" to fold the clothes in before I put them away. I am very frustrated by this as I am newly married within the past 1.5 years and I believe that these conditions are excessive.  Please help clarify this.

 (#1136) 2008-01-31

Is it permissible to do sex with my pregnant wife. During which months of pregnancy is it OK? After delivery when can we continue normal sex again? (#1137) 2008-01-31

Assalaamu alaikum; my friend is married for 10 years now but he beats his wife and tortures her a lot but not letting her divorce him so in that case after so much trouble the wife took wrong step by putting her impure liquid in the drink of her husband; now her husband does whatever she says…Iwant to know is she doing the right thing or is it a sin and how long will her husband be on favor to her?

 (#1138) 2008-01-31

 

Is there any special du’a to be recited while drinking zamzam water?

 (#1125) 2008-01-22

My father hasn't been in my life since I was 5 or 6 years old. He married another woman and left us with our mother to survive in a country where we barely had food to eat. My mother is not married to him, but still keeps in touch with him. He is now in prison is Saudi. I have forgiven him, and often pray for his happiness. In a few months I will be getting married, and everyone, including my mother is telling me that I need his permission to marry. I cannot marry without his presence or he has give his duties to someone else. Like one of my brothers. Is it sinful for me to refuse that he has nothing to do with my wedding? And that I appoint who I want to give me away. I do have 3 brothers and many uncles (Al-hamdulilah). Can my one of them give me away? I don't want to ask for his permission. I don't believe that he deserves such an honor. Tell me what to do.

 (#1127) 2008-01-22

I am a married sister with 2 kids but I lost 2 more one of them was 4 months the other was7 months he lived for 2 months and passed away later. My question is what is Islam view on losing a baby under the age of 15?.People I spoke to told me Iam very lucky and that in the here after they will be my best advocates What is Islam view on this. My 2nd Question is can a woman travel to hajj without a mahram but in a group of other Muslim women with her husband permission. God-Bless (#1119) 2007-10-23

Assalamu alaikum.. My father married his second wife 7 years back. Since then he has not even bothered to even look at my mother (first wife) nor bother with his sons and daughter from his first marriage….although with no fault of ours. He has not been supporting my mother either financially or otherwise since then . He stays separately with his second wife. I have 3 questions:

 1) What are the responsibilities of the husband (my father) to his first wife?

 2) Is the relationship deemed void or is it automatically terminated?

    My mother is planning on her 2nd Hajj in 10 days time.  My father was asked and permission was granted by him 6 months back. All preparations and planning for Hajj was done, tickets paid for visa issued and things spent for. Now suddenly my father has a change of mind and tells my mother that he does not give his permission for my mother to go for Hajj.

  3) What is the ruling, on such grounds, on seeking the permission of ones husband on going for Hajj? I tried reasoning with my father, but he seems to be adamant for no particular reason other than making things difficult for us. A local Imam told me that although permission from husband is necessary, I need to consider only the first time which was asked and permitted by him ...change of mind later does not count.  Please help me in clarifying this situation.Jazakallah khairan.

 (#1120) 2007-10-23

I don't understand. Are we supposed to fast 7 days of Shawwal or 6?  (#1117) 2007-10-22

Assalam Alaykum; this question is regarding fasting and making up days missed. I know a woman who has 9 children masha Allah and has breast fed them all for a long time. She tried to fast during Ramadan but some days she was unable to fast. She tried to make those days up but found that while breast feeding she could only make up a few and then she became pregnant again short after. Many times she was pregnant and breast feeding at the same time. She continued with this cycle for about 16 years. Now after all these years she wants to make up for her missed days but has lost track. She feels very guilty about this and would now like to start fasting Monday and Thursdays to make up. Would this woman be incurring a sin for losing track and not being able to make them up for so long? Does she have to do anything additional besides just making up the days?

 (#1118) 2007-10-22

As’salam alaikum; We live in Toronto, Canada. My wife is 100 days pregnant with our second child. 4 weeks ago at a routine ultrasound the doctors detected a “large septated cystic hygroma” on the fetus’s neck. This is a suspicious finding and is strongly associated with chromosomal/genetic problems; as a result doctors performed a procedure called CVS (Chorionic Villus Sampling), where they obtain a biopsy from the placenta to test the fetus’s chromosomes. The results came back indicating the fetus was a girl and there was abnormality with the X chromosomes in all the cells that were tested. In a normal female, every cell has 2X chromosomes, but in our case, 1/3 of cells have only 1X chromosome, 1/3 cells have 1X chromosome and a very small piece of second X chromosome and 1/3 have 1X chromosome and 2 X chromosomes in a ring.

We are advised by our doctors and geneticists that in such a situation, there is a high probability that our baby girl will have the following problems:

• Mental retardation

• Medical problems such as ear, eye, heart, kidney or thyroid difficulties, sugar diabetes, high blood pressure 

• low set ears, low hairline, webbed neck, pigmented moles, bending out of the elbows, and puffy hands and feet.

• Lack of secondary sexual characteristics and infertility

• Short stature

At this point, only Allah knows how severe the above symptoms will be. The doctors just know for sure that there is something very wrong with the chromosomes. We have also been told that septated cystic hygromas often grow in size as the baby grows and can lead to fetal death. As of now, there is no danger to the life of the mother (but the doctors said this could change).

We have been given the option of termination of pregnancy. We are very scared and worried about the implications of taking this route. We have read that before 120 days there is no “rooh” in the fetus, but its life is still precious (equivalent to an animal or plant). 

We would like a fatwa on whether it is permissible to perform abortion for the above reasons before 120 days when there is no risk to the life of mother? If yes, does Allah consider this equivalent to murder of an animal/plant and will we have to answer to Allah and to the child we aborted on the Day of Judgment?

The situation is causing great mental anguish to my wife. We are scared to raise a child with possible severe mental and medical problems, but we are also very scared of performing abortion as the consequences of this deed in the eyes of Allah are not clear to us.  Jazakallah Khairan in advance for your timely response.

 (#1116) 2007-10-21

Is Darud (benedictions) to be read at the end of salat or after the salat?

 (#1112) 2007-10-19

Do I need to make up as I started my fast from Pakistan but by the end of first ten days I reached Bahrain; in Bahrain Eid came before Pakistan so what do I do? Do I need to fast another day? Or is my obligation of fasting over?

 (#1114) 2007-10-19

Assalamualaikum. Jazakallah for sharing your knowledge with us. A woman missed 6 days of fasting in Ramadhaan due to menses. After Eid, she started fasting to make up for the days she missed in Ramadhan. During the 5th fast, in the morning around 10 a.m. she gets her period, so she has to break her fast. Now she has repaid 4 days missed in Ramadhaan and has 2 remaining. My question is, does she have to repay for this day, making it a balance of 3 days to fast or does she fast only the 2 days remaining?

 (#1115) 2007-10-19

Dear shaikh, is there any way adultery can be forgiven by ALLAH TAALA? I  AM REPENTING and crying for forgiveness for having been misled into adultery by someone whom i thought i loved and would leave my husband for. Having come to my senses i hate myself and my stupidity, and am ashamed. I don’t want my husband to know not now nor in the hereafter.....I indulged in it 4 times in all, and all the time persuaded and forced by the man; I have always stayed away from love of sex or thoughts about it , because I do not particularly like it, but yet I sinned; please help me cleanse my soul; I fear Allah’s punishment in grave.

 (#1111) 2007-10-18

Hello, I am a non-Muslim Canadian employer, and have Muslims and non-Muslims working for me. Amongst the Muslim women that work for me, there are a few that insist upon adhering to a particular type of religious dress, but the majority do not. I find it strange that only a minority insists on covering themselves from top to bottom, and want to know why should I cater to them?

 (#1109) 2007-10-10

Asalaam alaykum, I am currently a police officer in Toronto.  It was brought to my attention that by me being a police officer I am going against the shari’ah by putting democratic law first and enforcing democratic law.  Also by me enforcing man made laws I am going against one of the basic principles of tawhid (i.e. tawhid al-asma wa al-sifat); basically going against some of Allah’s SWT names such as the judge the legislator and he is the only one who can legislate laws and not men.  I don’t believe this to be true, because I am not putting democratic law before the shari’ah, my intention was always to reduce the amount of criminals and to be able to promote Islam to the general public by my words and actions.  My job doesn’t prevent me from practicing my religion as in I am allowed to have a beard, I am allowed to fast and pray as well while on duty.  I was hoping first of all that I am allowed to be a police officer, and if so is there any proof in the Qur’an and the Sunnah to back it up?  The fact that my career may be conflicting with my religion has brought a great deal of stress.  If you can please advise; it would greatly be appreciated.

 (#1108) 2007-10-09

I have type II diabetes and my doctor says that I should not fast due that its places stress and damage on body cells that in charge making insulin. What does Islam say about this matter?

 (#1099) 2007-10-08

I am a young healthy female person, but due to some illness I haven’t been able to fast for the past 10days … So what is the fidya I should give? I would like to give it away before ‘Eid. Can you advise me; jazakallah and may Allah bless you.

 (#1100) 2007-10-08

Is zaka due on Mutual Funds investments that are in a RRSP (Registered Retirement Savings Plan) account? If yes, then is it due on the total value or only on that portion which will be available after Income Tax has been deducted at source?

 (#1101) 2007-10-08

I would really appreciate if you can answer this important question as I need to declare Zaka ASAP. What is ruling for zaka on business? If I am in the manufacturing business am I required to pay zaka on my total assets (cash, equipment, real estate).Also, does this rule defer for owning shares (Common stock) in a company? By owning shares you are also an owner in the company which may be a very small percentage but the value of your shares is determined on the success of the company.

 (#1102) 2007-10-08

Assalamu Alaikum Dear Scholar, I am a doctor myself but have been placed on the birth control pill 6 years ago to treat 2 medical conditions that I have (endometriosis and polycystic ovarian syndrome). Each month, the pill is taken for 21 days, then a blank (inactive) placebo pill is taken for the remaining 7 days. It is during this placebo period that you get your menses. However, I figure since I am taking pill anyway, that I could avoid taking the placebo portion for the month of Ramadan so that I could complete all my fasts this month. I have actually been doing this practice for the past 3 years during Ramadan only but I wonder if this practice of mine is haraam or makruh. I feel it is medically safe to do so as I am a doctor myself, and I know that women often do this when they go to the Hajj or Umrah (in order not to miss out on any activities), and some women also take the pill continuously when they go for their honeymoon so as not to get their period during that time. My question is (sorry for the verbose nature of it), do you think it is Islamically OK to do this, or is it haraam or makruh (i.e. to take the active pill continuously during this holy month so as to be able to fast the whole month of Ramadan)? As I stated previously, I feel it is medically safe to do so as I only do it once per year during Ramadan time. What I seek is your fatwa regarding this, as I do not want to displease Allah. I look forward to your response. Jazakallah.

 (#1103) 2007-10-08

We are in the last days of Ramadan so if you answer this promptly I will be very grateful. My periods have started unfortunately during these very crucial last 10 days of Ramadan. I feel that the opportunity to pray, read the Qur’an etc. have been lost and feel frustrated. What can I do in such a state to get the maximum benefit out of these holy days? This includes involvement in lailatul qadr.

 (#1104) 2007-10-08

I wanted to know the meanings of the names: Alayna; Amiroon; are these good Islamic names for my daughter?

 (#1105) 2007-10-08

During Ramadhan, well actually ever since it happened, I have felt very awful about having consumed a lot of alcohol a few years ago under peer pressure. I don't know how to make amends for this sin.

 (#1106) 2007-10-08

Could you explain/describe the procedure for the ritual bath after a women's menstrual cycle, so that she can pray/fast again; or could you please direct me to a site where I could find this information; thank you very much.

 (#1107) 2007-10-08

What is fitrah? Why it should be given and who decide how much?

Where should I give fitrah and zakah, Canada or home country?

 (#1098) 2007-10-03

Assalamu alaikum; we hear different opinions in regard to the following issue:1)When my cell phone is ringing during the Salah (if I forgot to turn it off before Salah), can I turn it off or let it ring; 2) If I turn it off while praying, is my Salah rendered invalid? Please comment. May Allah (SWT) reward you.

 (#1092) 2007-10-01

Please tell me a du’ a to conceive; I have been trying for over 1 year without any luck; I am only 22 years old.

 (#1093) 2007-10-01

This Ramadan, I have been very much fraught with stress and regret over a sin I committed 11 years ago.  At 16, I stole two CDs from a local Indian store.  I am sincerely regretful and I am not sure how to make amends.  I am too afraid to tell the store owners (who no longer own the store, but still live in town).  Aside from asking Allah for forgiveness, should I anonymously send money for the amount of the CDs with a note of explanation, or mail back the original CDs in their current condition (without covers)---or should I send both? I would like to avoid actually speaking to the owners, for I feel Allah has already been merciful by hiding my sin for all these years.  What can I do to repent for this sin?

 (#1094) 2007-10-01

Assalam Alaikum Sheikh; I really need to know the answer to this question.  Please, please answer.  I have a child who was born with a genetic disorder and the doctors have said that she will be slow, etc.  Maashallah, she is doing very well and is a little slow but has a very good memory.  It takes her a long time to learn some things but she is very quick in other areas.  Should we go ahead and teach her about Islam and prayers etc even though she may grasp all of the concepts.  She knows Sura Fatihah and some du’as.

 (#1095) 2007-10-01

Since living in North America, we hardly find poor people in this country. There are welfare organizations and etc. My question is: if a sister cannot fast during this month of Ramadan, can she donate the money in terms of Fidyah to countries such as India, Pakistan or Africa. Jazaka Allah Khairan; I hope to receive the answer soon Insha Allah

 (#1096) 2007-10-01

Is it permissible to use inhaler for asthma patients while fasting? (#1097) 2007-10-01

I have a brief question in regards to the IIT and it's shari'ah-status as a masjid vs. musalla. Essentially, I would like to know if coming to IIT for prayers would be the same as going to a masjid (for example the Islamic Foundation, Jami Mosque, etc.) in terms of reward. This is quite important to me, especially in Ramadhan. Perhaps this could be forwarded to one of the Scholars/Shuyookh at the IIT. This would also help clarify some other related issues: - If the rules of a masjid would apply to the IIT such as menstruating women not entering the masjid, making i’tkaaf.- If donations to the IIT would count as being for the House of Allah vs. for an Islamic Center. If the answer is No, does the IIT have plans of perhaps designating a portion of the building as a masjid in the legal sense (shari’ah)?

 (#1091) 2007-09-26

Can I wash my hair with a shampoo that has a strong perfume smell during fasting time?

 (#1090) 2007-09-25

Assalamu Alaikum. My grandmother doesn't have enough money or food to feed 30 people. Could I give her the money or food to feed them; will she be  receiving the blessings?

 (#1081) 2007-09-24

I am a woman; during the month of Ramadan I go to mosque with my husband to pray taraweeh for some reasons:  1.to please Allah 2. Listen to the  Qur’an being recited there 3.Prayer is in congregation(women have separate place to pray)  but when I see some other people I think sometimes  riya (ostentation) comes into my mind even though I feel sorry for that; should I therefore stop going to the mosque? How can one get rid of riya? In the past I have done a lot of ghiba (backbiting); I don’t know even where some of those people live; so I can’t ask forgiveness from them. How can I get forgiveness for the sin of ghiba?

 (#1082) 2007-09-24

Assalum Alaikum, I would like to know if a sister at the time of her menses can sit in the masjid at an area where they are not doing salat, at the time of taraweeh

 (#1083) 2007-09-24

Does thinking about sex break your fast?

 (#1084) 2007-09-24

I have loaned some money to one of my poor relatives. Do I have to give zakah for the amount or not?

 (#1085) 2007-09-24

How does a person get rid of jadoo and how do you if someone has jadoo on them?

 (#1086) 2007-09-24

Can I use waistline on my legs while i’m fasting?

 (#1087) 2007-09-24

Can I do blood test while I’m fasting? Does it breake my fast?

 (#1088) 2007-09-24

 Is it permitted in Islam to abort the pregnancy within 40 days from the conceiving date?  Please answer my question as early as possible. I shall be very grateful to you.

 

 (#1089) 2007-09-24

I have 3 questions. When isha has started and then soon after taraweeh begins; if I’m late I  join the isha prayer and complete it, but no time to pray tahiyytatul masjid prayer, is it alright to leave it altogether or pray it at some time? 2) My daughter is pregnant and she will miss some fasts, do we give alms in lieu of the missed fasts everyday or should we calculate for the month and send it to the needy right away and is it one meal per day?

3.) While praying tahajjud can I recite by looking in the Qur’an or is it alright for me to read the small suras by memory.

 (#1076) 2007-09-18

Can you show affection in the form of hugs and kisses with your spouse during Ramadan?

 (#1077) 2007-09-18

Is it ok to make love with my boyfriend during Ramadan; that is after we break the fast?

 (#1078) 2007-09-18

Breaking the fast is different for some people.  What is considered sunset?   When the sun begins to set or when it has set and only dusk lights are visible?  When we say sunset it seems to mean after dark and some people wait the extra 10 minutes and others break immediately at the time of maghrib...which one is correct?

 (#1079) 2007-09-18

Why is it still today there are lectures during khutbas that women should not come to masjid for salah.... it is better for them to stay home and more rewarding? Should it not be qualified to mention that this is for those women with small children or other household duties (taking care of aged or other young?).  It seems like everyone (Imams and those who design masjids) are trying to discourage women from taking part in the masjid activities and prayers yet we are told we are integral to propagating Islam and supposed to be equal (according to Qur'an).  This is not just for Jum’a Salah but for all.  Some masjids don't even provide a decent area for women and the children they bring to pray...what are we teaching our young if the men (fathers) won't take the children either?  We are constantly overlooked in the activities and not even represented at board level (at the majlis) but are invited to help raise funds or supply food and drink...this hardly seems Islamic.  I understand there are rewards in doing this but...many feel excluded and undervalued by the community.

 (#1080) 2007-09-18

I totally forgot that I was fasting and had a cup of coffee when I got to work. Will this break my fast?

 (#1074) 2007-09-13

Please advise if I can use mouth wash during fasting, as I work in front line customer service it is necessary for me to use something in this month. Are there any other things to replace mouthwash?

 (#1075) 2007-09-13

Alhamdulillah i got a baby boy and would like to circumcise him: My question is can a lady doctor perform the circumcision for a boy? Is it allowed in Islam?

Please advice me according to the sunnah practice and islamic permission.

 (#1068) 2007-09-12

When does Ramadhan begin and end?

 (#1069) 2007-09-12

I love the practice of Islam.  I have some many beliefs that remind me of Muslim. What is the name of the book for Muslims read.  I would like to have one so that I can read about this.  Can I become a Muslim after being raised as a Christian in the USA?

 (#1070) 2007-09-12

I have a question about taking my medicines during Ramadan. Some of them I have to take during the day. Is there any chance I can do it and continued fasting, since that is not food or drink, or should I just pay for the  whole month because there is no way I can stop taking the pills. Thank you

 (#1071) 2007-09-12

Is it possible to change the day you are fasting to another date? I have running practices during Ramadan and I was wondering if I can fast another day instead of that day.

 (#1072) 2007-09-12

Can a young boy, age 13 years old lead the Tarawih salah? The youth has memorized the Qur’an, is a good reciter and understands the rules of taharawih salah?

 (#1073) 2007-09-12

Dear Shaikh Saheb. I asked you a question previously regarding my grand mother that whether she can say her prayers wearing diapers as she is bedridden but she has now died. She suffered a lot. Her lungs were not working for last 20 hours then her kidney stopped working and then she died. Were she in front of the death angel that time. Did she suffer so much because she could have something wrong. I was not able to see her because I was not there but I am so depressed thinking that she suffered so much and died. We all have to die one day. What is in the Qur’an regarding this and whether is such thing as punishment of the grave (azhab al-qabr). Shaikh saheb please pray for my grand mother that May Allah forgive her mistakes and that she be in paradise--Ameen. And may Allah give me and my family patience (sabr)-Ameen.
 (#1064) 2007-06-13

I would like to know the ruling on placing a finger on, or inside the anus of the wife during foreplay, and also of the wife placing a finger on or inside the anus of the husband.
 (#1065) 2007-06-13

I would like to know that commission / brokerage income earned working as a Mortgage Agent/ Broker, Real Estate and Insurance Agent / Broker is halaal (lawful) or haraam (unlawful). The underlying premise is that a broker / Agent acts as the "middle man" between the company (seller) and the customer (buyer) and gets paid a percentage of sales or a fixed commission based upon sales / services rendered.
 (#1066) 2007-06-13

I wanted to know if it's right for an Imam to teach Islamic studies to a ladies class sitting right in front of them or should he be behind some kind of barrier. Please, respond for I am waiting Insha Allah (Allah willing) before going to these classes. Jazaka Allahu khayran (may Allah reward you).
 (#1067) 2007-06-13

There is a student da’wah program that takes place in downtown, where we distribute pamphlets and translations of the Qur’an to the masses of people. Is giving da’wah fardh (obligatory) upon us; I do not have any proof or evidence on this. The only proof I i have is that, the last prophet has already come and there will be no more prophets. So it is upon the Ummah of the last prophet to invite people to the truth.

 (#1060) 2007-03-30

Where I am living, the people have an adhan program installed on their computer that plays the adhan when it is time for prayer. I wanted to know is there any virtue by having this program play the athan whenever the time for a prayer starts? Does it make any difference if an actual person in the house were to call the adhan or if it were to be a computer recording? Is there a decrease in reward, virtue, blessing (baraka), or any benefit at all if the computer plays it? Also, the people I am living with and me don't pray right away (except Maghrib) when the adhan is played on the computer. We just let it play, listen to it and go back to what we were doing and when we feel like praying like maybe more than an hour later sometimes, we go and pray. Is this wrong and disrespectful? Are we committing haraam (unlawful)? Must we pray right away after the adhan is called? 

 (#1061) 2007-03-30

I am a married man but am here in Canada alone working from last three months i have been away from my wife and I haven't masturbated but now its getting difficult for me to control my self could you tell me what should i do in these circumstances?

 (#1062) 2007-03-30

In the Holy Qur’an (chapter, 3:159) “…then once you have taken a decision, place your trust in Allah (tawakkal ala Allah).”  The concept of trust in Allah (tawakkul) includes action done to ensure a certain thing one has intended to do; the Prophet also told one of his companions, “tie the camel first”.

However, the above verse & many other similar verses on tawakkul did not mention at all the “action” aspect. Why?

 (#1063) 2007-03-30

Asalaamu Alaikum.
I really need your help and advice. I had written to you earlier this week regarding my concern and I still have not had any response from you. PLEASE PLEASE respond to my question and concern.
I am considering to convert into Islam but i do not know from where to begin and how to start the process. Is there an Imam I can go to on a weekly basis for weekly sessions, who can teach me everything about Islam-the culture and the practises? i have tried to read but simply reading does not help. I think I need to start practising rather than reading. Insha Allah, with your guidance and help I can start my journey into Islam. Thank You.
 (#1055) 2007-02-06

After my wife started attending some Qur’an classes in the city of Markham I see a clear change in her attitude towards me as a husband: She has become totally occupied with her classes and pal-talk; I do not have any conjugal relations with her for the last several months; she is always on the computer. I am a person who is working full time; the only time I am free to be intimate with my wife is on weekends when she is totally busy with her studies; and when she comes home she says she is too tired or exhausted to do anything. I want to know what my rights are as a husband. I expect my wife to appear attractive, and engage in foreplays before sex; she is not at all interested in any of these. I don’t have any objection to her attending religious classes, but I am afraid of falling into sins, since I find no sexual fulfillment in my marriage.

Isn’t the duty of a religious teacher to impress upon his/her students of the importance of keeping their spouses happy, especially in their conjugal relations with their partners?

 (#1054) 2006-12-23

My wife and I are expecting our first child, alhamdulilah (praise be to Allah) which is due in January, insha Allah (God willing).

My question is this. My wife is adamant of the name that she wants, should the child as we have been told be a girl. The problem is that my family, mother and grandmother in particular are very unhappy by the name. It is a good name Islamically, but my family are not Muslim and they fear the child may be bullied as a result of the name as we do not live in a Muslim country. There are however many Arabic names which they do approve of. So what should I do? Whose feelings take precedence in this matter; my wife’s, my mother’s, or my family’s? Unfortunately my wife is being very stubborn, and is refusing to call our child anything else.
 (#1051) 2006-12-22

I am told in my workplace by someone that as a pure hanafi he is not allowed to pray behind someone who has no beard. Can you tell me if this view is correct?
 (#1052) 2006-12-22

I know we are to remove pubic hair; can you tell me what is meant by it?
 (#1047) 2006-12-21

There are numerous instances of establishing regular prayer and regular charity in the Qur'an. I want to know if charity is limited to giving out money as alms, or does it also include volunteering of time (regularly either weekly or monthly) to Islamic organizations in various capacities; if I were to do so, will it also be reckoned as charity. Could we enjoy our work and involvement with the community as a meritorious act entailing rewards of charity?
 (#1048) 2006-12-21

People who has permanent residence status in Canada and who are seeking political asylum; these people submitted the false document and paper to stay in Canada. On above circumstances how much Halaal there income in Islamic way?
 (#1050) 2006-12-21

Please let me know the etiquette of meeting a potential spouse. There is a brother who wishes to meet me to see if we are suitable. He said that he has the right to ask to see some of my hair, the way I walk, some of my leg even. I was horrified to hear this, because he said this was Sunnah. Please help. Jazaka Allah (may Allah reward you).
 (#1045) 2006-12-14

In the state of Ihraam is it permissible to use toothpaste? Also, can we use un-perfumed creams in this state?
 (#1046) 2006-12-14

I have been married to a man for five years going on six years. I have not had any sexual relations with this man during this time frame. We have tried on several occasions with no success. I also have many marital disputes, it seems as though we cannot get through one week without serious arguments. He has left me on three occasions for about one or two weeks and once for over a little over a month. I have seriously tried for five years and have put lots of effort into the marriage. I am very depressed and do not know what to do. Am I supposed to stay married, in Islam is my marriage still valid? If he seeks medical attention and then we can have sexual relations should I stay but then what if he cannot even after medical treatment? This is an urgent matter, please let me know what I should do. Thank You.
 (#1044) 2006-11-21

Assalaamu alaikum; I have a question about performing wudhu. My name is Yuhary. Now, I am currently working with a company in the north of Toronto. I pray at my workplace but I am not comfortable to take off my safety shoe and clean my feet in order to perform wudhu. Anyway, I heard that in hadith, we are allowed or permitted to use water only touch on the shoe and then this wudhu is accepted for praying. Could you please advise me?
 (#1043) 2006-11-15

Assalamu Alaikum,

Dear scholar, this is the third time I am asking this question and it is my hope to receive a reply soon as this issue is affecting me deeply.

I am a person that is struggling to get into the journalism field. Alhamdulillah I am getting some work as a freelance writer, but not enough to make an effective living out of. At the moment the only work that I seem to get lots of is writing for music magazines, meaning interviewing musicians. Is this forbidden? Some of the people are saying that I am promoting haram (unlawful)? All I am honestly doing is asking the questions about their life and their views on the world and I merely report it on paper. My goal is to get out of music writing and inshallah (God-willing) get a job in a current affairs paper. But at the moment, I am stuck in this field. Please give me advice regarding this matter, as I currently feel paranoid and paralyzed career wise. Again, this is the third time I asking this question, I hope you can help me. May Allah reward you.
 (#1042) 2006-11-13

Dear brother, I have been married for more than six years now. I conceived after four years, but when I was just 3 months I had a miscarriage. After much investigation, the doctors found out that I am having problem in one of my fallopian tubes. They have suggested me to go for an IVF treatment, but I don’t want to. I feel that it is bad in Islam to go for IVF, and if Allah wants me to lead a life without children I will rather than do something that I feel is unlawful. The main reason why I feel it is unlawful is because it involves taking sperms out, where the method of masturbation would be performed. I am going through a lot of worry at the moment. Please help me and explain if IVF is halaal (lawful).
 (#1039) 2006-11-09

Dear Imaam, please explain the meaning of ibaadah (worship) in Islam. I am bit confused by this term. Are everyday acts such as working, taking care of one's family etc. part of worship? Also, since we're involved in numerous actions and behaviors unconsciously throughout the day, how can we become more conscious that our actions and behaviors are acts of worship?
 (#1040) 2006-11-09

After giving birth if stopped bleeding after 15 days can u start your regular prayers before 40 days?
 (#1041) 2006-11-09

I wanted to ask whether I can visit the grave of my mother in law. I live in India; the people here are forbidding me to visit the grave of my mum in law. Do I have a right to visit her grave or not?
 (#1038) 2006-10-27

Does a convert have to change their name just because they have converted to Islam; my friend believes that faith is all that should matter and since his name has been his identity since birth, he would like to keep it. Please comment.

 (#1034) 2006-10-26

Who can a woman go to hajj with?

 (#1035) 2006-10-26

Assalamu Alaikum! What is the best way to dispose paper/books containing Qur’anic Ayats (verses)? What about the translation of ayats? What about Hadith text in Arabic? Can we use recycling bin?

 (#1036) 2006-10-26

I have been told that reciting surah yaseen is the equivalent of reciting the Qur’an ten times and that by doing so the individual’s past sins are forgiven, which is why it is recommended to read it nearer the time of your death. So does that mean if a person commits grave sins such as indulging in sex before marriage, that they will be forgiven for this sin if they recite surah yaseen?

 (#1037) 2006-10-26

Are there any specific etiquettes or manners that are recommended for us to observe in order to celebrate Eidul Fitr in a truly fitting manner?
 (#1032) 2006-10-22

I would like to ask you question that my brother lives in Windsor and he started Ramadhaan on Saturday; now he is planning to do Eid with us in Toronto, so if we do 30 fasting his will be 31 fasting; so he will be fasting an extra day. What should he do in this case?
 (#1033) 2006-10-22

Can you use the new fresh breath films while fasting? They are just like mouth wash only in film rather than liquid form, but turn into liquid in the mouth. They are not like gum or mints. I am a dental hygienist in Toronto and I have to work close to people's faces and it is very important for me to conceal my fasting breath.
 (#1031) 2006-10-18

If a man is not fasting due to illness and his wife is a Christian, are they allowed to have relations in Ramadhan? Thank you.
 (#1022) 2006-10-14

During the month of Ramadan you try to read the Quran as much as you can. However can a woman who is menstruating during this holy month, still read the Quran without touching it?
 (#1023) 2006-10-14

Is it permitted to reveal the sex of the baby before his birth in Islam? Is there any evidence in the Qur’an or the Prophet’s life?
 (#1024) 2006-10-14

May I ask, what is the Islamic ruling on oral sex (of course within marriage), condoms, and contraceptives? Isn't utilizing a condom or contraceptive a waste of sperm? I was also wondering about showering with your spouse. Is it permitted?
 (#1025) 2006-10-14

I want to become an alim (Islamic scholar) because I have a very strong desire to be one. But one thing I’m confused about is that I can’t find any Islamic universities or schools in Toronto or Mississauga area which provide this kind of education. Can u pls. tell me the information of the courses available at your institute; how long is it, and also what the job opportunities are available in today’s world after finishing it?
 (#1026) 2006-10-14

Dear Imam I have a question which is really bugging me and other Muslim men may be in the same predicament but too shy to ask. As a married Muslim i feel Islam has allowed both couples to fulfill their desires etc through each other. Thus I have told me wife to dress nicely, look lustful etc. in our house etc. but she says why do you want me to wear these lustful dresses in our home. Am I right in fulfilling all my desires with my wife?
 (#1027) 2006-10-14

I have a few questions for you, and hope that Insha Allah you will be able to advise: My first question is about deriving fiqh rulings. I am following Hanafi Rulings and I recently learnt how all the Imams said to follow the hadith and not their rulings if a stronger hadith is available, so in that case if I see a hadith in Bukhari that Prophet (sallalahu alayhi wa sallam) used to put hands on his chest in prayers, then that implies that’s how I should do it, Insha Allah, so I wonder was that hadith not available to Imam Abu Hanifah when he gave rulings, or was he using a different Usool al-fiqh to say to have hands below naval line? So if this is the right way (i.e. to look at opinions of four madhahbs and look at the daleels), is there any book written for an ordinary person like myself to use and refer to see rulings regarding prayers, zakah and other daily ibadahs? If such a book exists does it cover why the daleel of certain madhhab about a ruling is stronger and why is it weaker for other madhhab, such as hands on chest or below naval line in prayers?
 (#1028) 2006-10-14

Do we need to tell the person we are giving the zakah that the money he is receiving is from zakah? The reason why I am asking you this question is because I know this family who are need of the money but they will not ask for it. I want to help them from my zakah money.
 (#1029) 2006-10-14

Can a Muslim couple bathe together while in a state of fasting in the month of Ramadhaan. Pls. reply as soon as possible. The answer is required on urgent basis.
 (#1030) 2006-10-14

Is it compulsory to bathe before fast after sex between husband and wife in Ramadhan?
 (#1009) 2006-10-04

If a woman is fasting in the month of Ramadan and her period starts after midday, is her fast still valid?
 (#1010) 2006-10-04

Assuming you don't swallow, does brushing your teeth, (i.e. with water and toothpaste), break your fast?
 (#1011) 2006-10-04

I haven’t fasted or prayed for the last two years. I’m considering doing so this year, however, I am wondering if my fast will be accepted even though i don’t wear hijab or pray?
 (#1012) 2006-10-04

I am in medical school applying for medical residency next year. I am studying for my board exams (USMLE Step 2) which is at the end of October. I find it very difficult to study while fasting. Is it wrong for me to not fast?
 (#1013) 2006-10-04

Assalamualaikum. Jazakallah to the sister who asked question #1004 because I also have an appointment with a gyno in Ramadhan and he is a man. If he does some tests, will it nullify the fast? After reading your answer, I think not, because the intention is not to break the fast. Please advise. Jazakallah.
 (#1014) 2006-10-04

I am 4 months pregnant this Ramadhan and I am unable to fast. I am confused about whether I am obliged to make up the days that I have missed or do I pay the fidyah (compensation)?
 (#1015) 2006-10-04

If you masturbate whilst fasting without knowing that it is forbidden during Ramadan, Do you break your fast?
 (#1016) 2006-10-04

I am 25yr old Abdul Rahman from India. Pls help me. My question: After finishing fajr prayer, I slept for some time, and during this time I experienced night fall. Is my fast broken? I am feeling very guilty. Pls. guide me.
 (#1017) 2006-10-04

Salam wa la kum and Ramaadaan Mubarak! I hope my question is not too sensitive but I feel with what is going on in Iraq, unity is more important then ever. Is it permissible for sunni and shias to marry especially shia's from the jaffari ithna asheri madhab? I believe we can live together as one Ummah and respect the differences and focus on what we have in common. Can you tell me a fair criterion for this type of marriage?
 (#1018) 2006-10-04

Dear Scholars, Asslam alaykum. During fasting I had an intercourse with my wife but not ejaculated the sperm, before ejaculation i stopped; is it permissible? If not should both of us offer kaffarah by fasting 60 days consecutively? Also guide me in details spending with wife in Ramadhan. Is looking and touching at naked body of wife is allowed if emotions can be controlled.
 (#1019) 2006-10-04

If a woman is on birth control, can she use it to delay her period so she can fast the whole month of Ramadhan? Thank you and Jazakumullah.
 (#1020) 2006-10-04

Assalaamu alaikum dear scholars. I would like to ask a question regarding fasting, i work for a secondary school and i get a lot of Muslim parents asking if their children can be excused from participating in physical education lessons because they are fasting. I am also Muslim and far as I know we are supposed to fast and carry on with our every day life; so I tell the parents that their child has to participate and they cant use fasting as an excuse. Can you please tell me if I am doing wrong or am I right in doing this?
 (#1021) 2006-10-04

Dear scholars, I want to ask if a Muslim who plays professional soccer can eat on the day he has a match? With soccer he earns a living for his family. There are a hundreds of Muslims playing in Europe and they are dealing with this question. I couldn't find a fatwa about this important subject. I asked a few imams in the Netherlands, but they couldn't give a good answer. Thank you for your time.
 (#1008) 2006-09-29

Salaam Alaikum and Ramadan Mubarak.

I am fasting Ramadan and I have a gynecological appointment that is necessary. I have made it as late in the day as possible and my doctor is a female. Iftar is very late in the day and it is not possible to make an appointment at a later time with my doctor’s office. That being said my friends told me that going to the gynecologist and if they touch me "there" I will negate my fast for the day. I asked my husband and he said he doesn't think so. I have no one to ask as I am a revert for a few years and do not have a female family member who is Muslim to ask and I am shy to ask his mom. I need to know an answer to this and if I need to make this day up. I am leaning towards it being okay as it is medical, very necessary and non-sexual in nature but I still question so if you could answer please it will be much appreciated.

 

 (#1004) 2006-09-25

 Asalamulakum. I have a simple question about fasting in the holy month of Ramadan. Is it acceptable to use toothpaste while brushing my teeth? I have been told that using toothpaste breaks your fast, but I have also been told the opposite. Its not as if I am swallowing the toothpaste I\'m merely using it for hygienic purposes. I even make sure I gargle 4-5 times afterwards so that I rinse out all the toothpaste out of my mouth. If you can reply to my question as soon as possible it would be much appreciated.

 (#1007) 2006-09-25

Peace be upon you; I am a new Muslim; I won't to know where can I get knowledge from.

 (#1005) 2006-09-25

As'salaamu 'Alaykum, I have a question about whether or not the following hadith is weak or not: “Narrated by Aisha (RA) which reports that the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said that the reward of a prayer is multiplied 70x" Could you also say where this hadith is coming from? Jazaka Allah Khairan

 (#1006) 2006-09-25

Salam Alaikum, Im  a 14 year old hafiz, and i live in Scarborough; I lead taraweeh in Brampton, when I lead i read slow, not very slow but at a normal tone...but everyone there reads very fast with no tajweed or no tarteel, and today at the end the huffaz said I  read slow...the people behind me said masha Allah and my mom said I read fast.. i felt really bad when they said I read slow but every time I hear them say that I think of ( the verse in the Qur’an wa ratilil quraana tarteela) . im really stuck in this situation; I don’t know who to tells what and how to tell it to them. Please help me....I will also pray salatul istikharah

 (#1003) 2006-09-24

I am a 23 year old Muslim male, and have recently proposed marriage to my 21 year old Muslim counterpart. We are international students in Toronto, and both our families who live in Asia have approved and requested us to perform Nikaah before going back home for the ceremony. I, however have no idea how the procedure works and would like to know what the legal requirements are as well as Islamic laws, and where to find such a person to conduct it.

 (#995) 2006-09-21

I need some information about Aqiqah for a baby boy.

 (#996) 2006-09-21

I have one question. I m married and having one baby girl. She is 7 months old. I’ m doing breastfeeding only. Can I breastfeed after having sex before taking bath?

 (#997) 2006-09-21

I receive acupuncture treatment where needles are inserted into different areas of my back- nothing is injected into my body- will I be able to continue this while fasting?

 (#998) 2006-09-21

Please shed some light I am a married Muslim man with a child, been married for 4 years but I have an severe overactive sex drive and i my wife has started to resent me as she is a lot more timid than me;  I feel like I’m in a corner as divorce is out of the question as we live in a very conservative family; what should I do?

 (#999) 2006-09-21

I am so confused with the moon-sighting decision. When I read your article about astronomical calculations for moon-sighting I felt it right to follow and decided to start my Ramadan on this Saturday but the mosque that I follow(Nugget Mosque) says it will make its decision on moon-sighting which probably be Sunday. I am so confused; I don’t know what to do. Who shall I follow? Please help me out. Thanks. May Allah give you the reward for your guidance-aameen.

 (#1002) 2006-09-21

Whether it is possible to perform Jumu’ah Prayer behind an Imam if his actions imply that he has left Islam, especially if there is no other mosque in the city?

 (#1000) 2006-09-21

I had sex and she was 6 months pregnant before we got married. What is the status of that child is he/she considered ja’iz (lawful) or not?

 (#1001) 2006-09-21

Does God ever forgive fornication?
 (#989) 2006-09-07

When is the first day of Ramadhan this year?
 (#990) 2006-09-07

Why do Muslims fast in Ramadan?
 (#991) 2006-09-07

If I missed fasts in previous Ramadhan and I did not make up for them: What should I do: Should I make up for them or fast the recommended fasts in Sha’ban?
 (#992) 2006-09-07

I am ashamed of ever committing such and act, with my own sister, who was about 8, but I was about 12-13 years old, now 18; then I started reading the Quran and devoted myself unto it; but still I felt the urge to satisfy myself through masturbation; this eventually lead me to look at porn, and watch videos; etc; I feel so bad and horrified to have committed such sins; I can't stop thinking and asking for repentance, making istighfaar (asking forgiveness) and Tawbah (repentance). But my sexual desires did not end there. I began watching more porn, and masturbating frequently. I thought this was a way to cope by avoiding contact with the opposite sex and that I wouldn't commit zina (fornication). It turns out Shaitan had clung on to me. I hadn't been able to control my sexual desires, but subhannallah (glory be to Allah) Allah still wanted to call His servant to him. Since those times with my Sister, and the porn addiction, I have doing my best to do good deeds, in firstly establishing 5 times Salat, always asking for repentance; going out with Jamaat, doing Tabligh, and going to the Masajid frequently; making dhikr and keeping remembrance of death. Is this because of the belief that everything is pre-destined? Will I suffer forever from Allah’s wrath? Please help me by your reply.
 (#993) 2006-09-07

I’m a Muslim lady married to a non-believer, although I practice Islam and my son follows Islamic teachings. Am I still considered a Muslim?
 (#994) 2006-09-07

Jazaakum Allah khair (may Allah reward you) for all your efforts and for providing this service.

My question is sensitive, but I really need the answer, and I am sure other sisters have experienced this situation so perhaps they will benefit with a clear answer. I have asked other sisters, but they said they could not provide me with a certain answer.

My doctors have told me that I need to use birth control-- I am unmarried, but I have a cyst (a non-cancerous growth) on my ovary and had this problem before. By using birth control, they hope it will shrink this cyst and that I can avoid having a surgery again for the second time.

My problem is that because of the pills, I am now bleeding throughout my menstrual cycle- it is red blood and considerable (like a period). I was told this should stop after 3 months as my body adjusts to the medication OR they may change to a different brand and the problem should go away. Until such time, I am uncertain what to do about Salaat and reading Quran.

Can I pray and read Qur’an -- assuming that my period is 7 days long (as usual for me) and avoid praying just during that time. This is a difficult situation and it's upsetting me.

Thank you so much for your time, patience, and help.
 (#988) 2006-09-05

I am extremely possessive towards my husband. He has started to dislike me what should I do?
 (#982) 2006-09-05

Does a runny nose break wudhu? When I perform wudhu and sniff water up my nose it makes it run, does this mean I have to perform it again?
 (#983) 2006-09-05

I am involved in the design of a large industrial work-place in Seattle. It seems many Muslims are part of the workforce. We will provide foot-washing areas in each restroom. The restrooms are separate for men and women. We will also provide a prayer room.

Should we provide soap and paper towel dispensers beside the foot-wash area?

The prayer room is next to the restroom. They have separate doors from the outside. Is this a problem?

What else should be done to ensure proper conformance with the the rules for cleanliness and prayer? Thanks for your help.
 (#984) 2006-09-05

Firstly, all Praise and Thanks are for Allah (SWT) for giving us the opportunity to learn about Islam from a scholar such as yourself; may Allah (SWT) bless you and allow you to continue your most wonderful work in this path. I will be getting married soon Insha Allah. However, I have a few concerns about the ideas that I have been hearing regarding nikaah and waleemah, which I would like for you to clear up. With regards to the nikaah, specifically the way in which it should be performed:
  1. What is the correct way/ways of performing the nikaah ceremony?
  2. Can the bride and groom sit side by side, provided that the Imaam sits in between them, or does the bride have to sit in separate place from the ceremony?
  3. Is there anything in the scriptures of Qur'an/Sunnah/Fiqh that stipulate that you must get married in a masjid (the actual masjid area)?
My other concern is with respect to the waleemah. I know that the waleema should be done after the nikaah, as you have mentioned on several ocassions in this forum. However, can you have the waleemah on the same day as the nikaah? What are the proofs that are provided? I thank you for your effort in this matter, as I would like to clear up certain misunderstandings about this topic before I get married.
 (#985) 2006-09-05

I have a tendency to act differently when I’m around Muslims than when I’m not. For example, I lower my gaze more when I am talking to a Muslim of the opposite gender who is not a family member than when I am talking to a non-Muslim (I think the reason for that is that non-Muslims would think it is rude). Is that ok? Also, on the topic of Muslims lowering their gaze, I am skeptical about whether it is permissible to watch television, since a Muslim should not look at a person of the opposite gender who is not a family member without lowering my gaze, true? Could you please clarify these topics?
 (#986) 2006-09-05

Jesus Christ raised the dead and healed the sick when he was on this earth. What miracles did Mohamed perform while earth bound?

 (#981) 2006-07-26

We are planning to travel for Umrah. Is there any harm in traveling from USA to Europe to Jeddah to Madinah, and make intention of Umrah after arriving at Madinah and enter into state of Ihram at Madinah? Please answer. (#974) 2006-07-23

I want to do qurbani (sacrifice) of an animal for my deceased father or Prophet Muhammad; can we do that?

 (#946) 2006-07-18

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) got the revelation of the Holy Quran at the age of 40. So, it was then he became a Muslim. What faith was he following before that?

 (#947) 2006-07-18

I write poetry and it may be published, but i need to know if it is ok to write poetry that it is not Islamic. Like for examples love poems friendship poems. I have been told many different things i thought it is best to ask somebody who has more experience.

 (#948) 2006-07-18

I need  to  pray  Salat al-Istikharah  but  I  don’t  know  how; can you  tell me  how?

 (#949) 2006-07-18

I received this question so I will just write it down as said; "How do you know that Muhammad is who he says he is? Why is there no predictive prophetic indication in the Scriptures say that Mohammed would be the final prophet? Jesus was prophesied , same with Moses, John the Baptist, note everyone of importance was always foretold of and the things this person would do so people would know who they were (2 actions - first indication of role and second the action they would do).  Mohamed wasn't mentioned why?  (Also to identify the prophet there would always be a qualifier -they would to something that no one else could do and this is foretold in the ancient scriptures way before they arrived. Where are Muhammad's prophecies and qualifier? So why do people believe his words? What is the difference between Mohammed and Buddah?  Don't you think God would have paved the way for him if he was the major prophet? Please provide proof in the Qur'an or in the Torah"

 (#966) 2006-07-18

I secretly performed nikah with my wife to protect myself and her from engaging in sin.  The idea was to convince the parents later. We have been married for two years. Now we have convinced our parents but we don’t want to disclose our nikah to them. Can we have nikah again that will be arranged by our parents without telling them about our first nikah: Will it affect marriage?  Is nikah over nikah permissible in Islam?  (#940) 2006-07-08

Jazakumu lahu khairan (may Allah reward you) for this wonderful available service and may Allah (swt) grant everyone taqwa (piety) and iman (faith), and allow all the Muslims to be united in jannatul firdaws (paradise). Knowing the there is a controversy on whether it is obligatory or not in Islam, I am very interested in wearing the niqab (face-veil) and feel that I would feel both secure and comfortable in wearing it. However, going to first year university this upcoming September inshallah, I am afraid that I won’t have enough patience, iman, and taqwa to survive while wearing the niqab. (Considering I’ll be the only one wearing it, and going into the science field, performing labs, etc. may pose some problems). Please give me your advice.  (#941) 2006-07-08

My wife and I were blessed with a son on June 23rd 2006. We named him on June 30th with Shayk Dawood who made dua for our son.  The question I have concerns the shaving of our son\'s head at the Aqeeqah (which we intend to have in August. I understand we are to make Sadaquah based on the weight of our son's hair in relation to the current price of silver; but, since I do not have a viable means of weighing his hair and will have to guesstimate, is there a religious purpose in shaving his head? Is the blessing in the paying of the Sadaqah (charity) only, or is the shaving of the hair & the paying of the Sadaqah? (#942) 2006-07-08

Are we allowed to consume vinegar with food?

 (#943) 2006-07-08

I learnt a Muslim is supposed to fast 3 days if he looks as the corpse of a dead non-Muslim. I would like to ask if this ruling applies to photos or corpses shown on tv e.g. in disaster zones, etc. (#944) 2006-07-08

Is it permissible to attend any convocation ceremony (for conferment of degrees) and wear the dresses characteristic of it, since the clothes worn on have a resemblance with or are derived from Christian religious pratices related to Popes, Bishops, etc.(even till now the Church authorities wear the same dresses) and since the ceremony also boosts a person's ego.

 (#945) 2006-07-08

Thank you for the opportunity to ask a question here.
I am a new Muslim and my family members are Christian. I am married to a Muslim man who came here to Australia from a Muslim country. My question is about family get- together that occurs mainly at holiday times. My family has a long tradition of what food should be prepared at these gatherings and this includes items that are forbidden for Muslims e.g. pork, alcohol. They are happy to provide alternative food and drinks for my husband and myself that do not contain any haram ingredients. I would like to know if it is allowed for us to attend these family gatherings a few times a year if we eat only halaal foods or should we avoid them if family members at the table are consuming pork or alcohol? I would like to show my family respect and kindness as well as to show them that Muslim people are good, kind, well mannered people. However, I don't want to do something that is haram in order to achieve these things.

 (#939) 2006-04-19

What contributions were made by Shah Waliullah in the revival of Islam?

 (#938) 2006-04-10

I have tried to convince my husband that it is haram to speak with the other women for social and friendship purposes, although they are university colleagues. However, he doesn't seem to realize the importance of this issue and the problems it causes between us. I trust that there is no bad intention in his mind, but it still bothers me.  What can I do to help him and myself?

 (#935) 2006-04-05

I have a friend who was adopted when she was just 3 months old. Now, my friend's real (birth) mother is my friend's current dad's sister. My friend has lived with her current parents her entire life. Now, her real mom is asking her to come back to her. But my friend doesn't want to leave her current parents because they have given her A LOT of love. My question is: Does my friend's real (birth) mother have the right to ask my friend to come back to her even if my friend doesn't want to? I mean does my friend have to listen to her birth mother or does she have the right to choose?

 (#936) 2006-04-05

I have a question regarding the Koran. I myself don't know Arabic and I heard from Imam Suhaib Webb that barakah (spiritual grace) is in understanding what is in the Quran. I wanted to ask you,

1) Should I concern myself with reading a translation of the Qur'an with tafsir or commentary and not care about reading it and pronouncing correctly in Arabic? or

2) Should I focus on learning to recite Quran with proper pronunciation and sound stressing and so on (I think that is called tajweed) and/or memorizing surahs or chapters of the Qur'an? Keeping in mind that I don't know the Arabic language and I think I am a little "sloppy" when it comes to reading Arabic, which of the above two scenarios would be more virtuous or better for me to participate in. (Also, is it fard on a Muslim to read Quran at least once in their life and know how to read Arabic? My parents are from Hyderabad and my mother and grandmother say you will be raised up blind on the day of judgment if you don't know how to read the Qur'an.)

 (#937) 2006-04-05

I’m traveling 10:30 am from London to Malaysia get there for 6am the next day. How do I pray? What is the best way to please Allah? May Allah give you the best of rewards.

 (#927) 2006-03-23

 (#928) 2006-03-23

My question is simple are Muslims allowed to eat foods made by non-Muslims such as Hindus, Sikhs, Christians, etc. can you please give your answer regarding where the information actually comes from.

 (#929) 2006-03-23

I pregnant with my first child.  Is there any specific kind of worship/duas that I can be praying for a healthy and normal pregnancy and baby? 

 (#931) 2006-03-23

I am a sister who lives in Canada.  I was wondering if it's permissible for women to go out? Especially, if it's with good Muslim sisters or to an event held by an MSA. If there's nothing wrong with it, how can I explain to my parents that there's nothing wrong with it?

 (#933) 2006-03-23

Are women allowed to Pray the Friday prayer if not please provide evidence from Qur’an. I am a new Muslimah and people are telling me that women are not allowed to go to Friday prayer I need a reference from the Quran if this is true.  (#924) 2006-03-22

Is it true that in Islam a person must be put to death if he/she converts to another religion?

 (#926) 2006-03-22

Why are Muslims so upset over the sketches from Denmark of their prophet? It seems to me the mighty Islam is really a weak religion when you have to get so upset over such a trivial thing.  (#921) 2006-02-19

If Muhammad was such a holy man, why was it necessary for him to lead such a violent life? (#914) 2006-02-13

Is it obligatory for me to continue to help my healthy brother who doesn't try to help himself progress?

 (#907) 2006-02-11

I am trying to learn and practice proper Islamic teachings.  However, my mother has been a big hindrance in my observance of Islamic practices, such as covering appropriately and avoiding, or being careful in, mixed gender gatherings. It's becoming extremely difficult for me to go my own way.  I have been teaching her the right way and telling her the devastating consequences of not following the path of Allah, but nothing works. She scolds and forces me to go her way. I'm very much afraid of Allah (SWT) for what I’ve done on my mother's insistence. Please advise me on the right way of dealing with this issue.  I have been polite with her, but, become bitter when she forces me. May Allah (SWT) forgive me.  I will appreciate your help.

 (#909) 2006-02-11

I would like to know what the limit is in inviting my friends and family to the straight path of Islam. I try to teach my family the right things when they go wrong, but they ignore me, get irritated, face the other way or change the topic.  I feel degraded and sometimes feel I'm overdoing it and shouldn't be pushing them. But, I'm afraid of them doing wrong things because I can't bear the thought of my family burning in hellfire. Please help me in this matter. Should I tell them once and stop, or, keep reminding them every time. I'll appreciate your help.

 (#910) 2006-02-11

Can I have the name of baby Ahmed Abdullah?

 (#893) 2006-01-25

My question: Is it wrong for a couple who have committed adultery to get married with each other if they have sincerely repented? I know that in surah noor verse 3, it says that a zani (fornicating) man can marry a zani or a mushrik (polytheist), and the same case with zaniyah woman. But then, it is also said that if you sincerely repent, then you can marry a clean woman. Please clarify my confusion.

 (#903) 2006-01-25

I am a Muslim sister who still has to pay my zakah.  I have my sister who is not employed right now and has advised me that she will accept my zakah if I give it to her.  She is experiencing financial hardship.  Can I give her the money or does it have to be someone very poor?

 (#904) 2006-01-25

We know that Allah has promised to preserve the Qur’an, unlike the Gospel, Torah, etc., and it has been preserved until this day in its entirety. The problem is that I am hearing there are false copies of the Koran being made and spread, I think, in Iraq and that the Islamic curriculum is being distorted. If this IS true, doesn't this contradict the idea of the Koran being preserved by Allah until the last day. What are we to do?

 (#905) 2006-01-25

What advice could I give my children as they are losing their Islam by hanging out with non-Muslim friends all day long?

 (#906) 2006-01-25

Why should Muslims vote? (#886) 2006-01-20

I am planning to go for hajj this year. I want to know about the proper etiquettes that I should follow in order to derive maximum spiritual benefits from my hajj. (#885) 2005-12-23

My question is regarding the Reviving the Islamic Spirit Convention. There is one person going to come to that convention named Hamza Yusuf. I don't know for sure, but I have been hearing that he is a Sufi. I don't exactly know what Sufism is, but I heard it is another division of Islam which basically leads to Muslims being divided among themselves, and I don't know if Sufis are Muslims. I have heard that Hamza Yusuf has deviated away from what the Koran and maybe other sources of Islam really teach and he is teaching others un-Islamic concepts especially through his Zaytuna Institute in California. I myself don\'t know for sure, which is why I wanted to ask you for advice and your opinion. I have been having doubts as to whether or not this convention is really being presented by Muslims or people who like to call themselves "Muslim". I thought I might just add, it is strange that he is a sheikh and he has a beard but not the Sunnah type, but some goatee. His cheeks look clean shaven. I am not pointing any fingers but is it possible Sufis are promoting that?  (#884) 2005-12-14

So you think the war in Iraq is illegal. Was it illegal when the Moslems took the Middle East from Christianity in the 7th century? Was it illegal when the Moslems invaded southern France in the 8th century? (#877) 2005-12-13

Why some of your answers are in contradiction to the rulings given by Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Baaz and his student like Shaykh Muhammad Saalih al-Munajid. Exampless are: your anwser concering Hijab, Machine Slaughter, Interest Based Mortgage. They consider covering face and hand mandatory. Also machine slaughter is not considered as Zabihah and Interest based any loan including mortgage to buy a house is considered haram. I am very concerned about this as these are some very basic aspects of lives of people living is the West.  (#878) 2005-12-13

Can we spank our wives if they are being naughty? (#879) 2005-12-13

Do you think that the present government of Saudi Arabia is a legitimate government? (#880) 2005-12-13

Why are so many Moslems so anxious to give their lives in the name of suicide bombings? (#881) 2005-12-13

Please give me the benefits of reciting Surah Yaseen (#876) 2005-11-27

Can you tell me how close to fajr Prayer I can read tahajjud prayer? (#872) 2005-11-26

As Canadian Muslim I pay taxes to the government, which takes up a major portion of my income; it is my understanding that a portion of the taxes thus collected by the government goes to the poor and those who work to collect them; this being the case, can I consider myself as being absolved from the duty of paying Zakah? (#873) 2005-11-26

I know that it is something that we should do, out of appreciation for the role he has played in bringing Islam to us, but I don't really understand in-depth, why we must do this; I have heard and read some things, which I hope you could clarify, which make it seem like its OBLIGATORY to send durood (salawaat or blessings) on him, and his family. The quote that does bother me a bit is that it is said a person's du’a will not be accepted until the person sends peace upon the Prophet (s.a.w.), and his family. I find this a bit forceful as if we're being told we HAVE to do it, or else our du’a will not be accepted. I am of the understanding that such things are personal choices - just like the voluntary prayers; it is highly recommended, but it is not COMPULSORY; you are not be penalized or suffer any loss if you choose not to do them. I also know that a lot of our misconceptions and misunderstandings are because we hear hadiths and quotes out of context; I don’t know if that’s the case here. Please explain this issue for me.  (#874) 2005-11-26

I am a student currently in grade 12. Dhuhr prayer starts a few minutes before lunch ends at my school, and I am reluctant on being late to my third period class to pray. Asr prayer starts during my fourth period class, and to pray Dhuhr during the 5 minute break between the two classes leaves hardly any time. My question is, is it permissible for me to pray both dhuhr and asr prayer after school, or should I sacrifice being late for class to pray?  (#875) 2005-11-26

Is visiting the graveyard on Eid-ul-Fitr considered Bid'ah or Sunnah? (#863) 2005-11-16

I have asked this question many times before but i did not get any reply. you are kindly requested to please reply: Can a married couple bathe together in the state of fasting? (#864) 2005-11-16

Am I allowed to engage in dhikr and du’a while menstruating? (#865) 2005-11-16

Does my father know when I visit his grave; does his soul return to his grave when one goes to visit him? (#866) 2005-11-16

How much nudity is allowed during intercourse in Islam? (#867) 2005-11-16

Can husband and wife use bad sexual language talking to each other only? (#868) 2005-11-16

I am 26 yrs old female and my parents are asking me to get marriage but I want to be single all my life. I am afraid of this commitment because I have seen my parents’ dysfunctional marriage. And is it necessary for a woman to marry? (#869) 2005-11-16

I am a 16 year old girl an Alhamdullilah I have been fasting in Ramadan so far. The problem is that I have anemia and my doctor has advised not to fast since I will not be getting adequate nutrients. I have not felt any weakness during fasting, and I think that I am too young to use such an excuse not to fast. Should I continue fasting or should I listen to my doctor? (#852) 2005-10-17

If an animal is applied electrical current for a few seconds to make it unconscious and then it is slaughtered in Islamic way of Halal Slaughter, would it be considered Halal? It is made scientifically sure that when the animal is slaughtered, it is alive and breathing. The current applied or electrical stunning, only make it immobile to save the struggle of both the animal and the slaughterer. According to the two main requirements of Halal Slaughter, the animal must be alive at the time of slaughter and maximum blood should be let out of the animal body. If we meet these two requirements even after applying current,the meat should be Halal. Do you agree?  (#853) 2005-10-17

Can blasphemy be forgiven in Islam if the person who did it sincerely repents? (#854) 2005-10-17

I was wondering if it is important to have a Muslim name. I am Muslim and was born Muslim but my father left me with a European name?? (#855) 2005-10-17

I am a divorced woman who has been in a relationship with a married man for 4 months or so. I have slept with him and am now deeply ashamed and repentant of my acts. He still wants to marry me but I am having second thoughts about it due to the fact that I have already committed adultery with him. Would a marriage to him be lawful? I have cut off all contact with him although as I said, he still wants to marry me.  (#856) 2005-10-17

Is it permissible for me to hug/kiss my wife while I am fasting? (#857) 2005-10-17

Is it true that in Islam ONLY man can divorce his wife and a woman can not divorce her husband? (#858) 2005-10-17

While fasting I slept with my wife and had foreplay that led to ejaculation. What should I do to compensate? (#859) 2005-10-17

What is the Nisaab (zakatable) amount to take into consideration in Toronto when calculating Zakat on cash and on gold jewelry? (#860) 2005-10-17

When a woman is not fasting due to her monthly period what is the ettiquette to follow when eating during the day? Is it ok if other men in her house or at her workplace see her eating or should she eat discreetly?  (#861) 2005-10-17

I am from Turkey, and currently living in Detroit, USA. I am very confused w/ imsaak and fajr. In Turkey, Muslims finish suhoor 15 minues before fajr. Prayer times I downloaded from the internet do not have imsaak. Muslims here finish suhoor at fajr. Which one is right? (#862) 2005-10-17

I made intention to fast Ramadan during the evening but delayed ghusl until morning to make sure of my purification. Unfortunately my alarm did not wake me up so I performed ghusl after fajr. Is my fast still acceptable?  (#846) 2005-10-16

Is it permissible to have intercourse (SEX) with husband during Ramadhaan time? (#847) 2005-10-16

Is there any difference between the performance of salaah of men and women ? i.e. standing /sitting, takbir-tahrima etc. How important is it to follow these rule IF there is any such rule at all. If there is - why is it? is it mentioned in Qur\'an ? What are the differences IF there is any? (#848) 2005-10-16

May Allah reward you for answering our questions; I am on my way to learn reading the Quran in Arabic. But for now, I read very slow. Therefore, I cannot do much during Ramadhaan, in addition, I will not be able to understand the meanings of words. Will I get the reward if I read the entire Quran translated in English during Ramadhaan? (#849) 2005-10-16

I am asking this question the second time and I really need your guidance as soon as possible please. Due to a gynecological condition called polycystic ovarian syndrome, my periods are often irregular. Sometimes they skip months while other times they last longer than the usual 7 days. Under such conditions, what is the ruling about praying and Fasting? This month, I still have me periods (today is the 20th day). Should I fast and pray? Am I allowed to pray in such conditions even after Ramadhaan? (#850) 2005-10-16

What are the regulations of a female traveling abroad for study? I have been trying to get into the MA program of my local and only two universities for the past three years, no success. My grades are high, and i can get in an MA program in another province. I've been working on my education for the past ten years, and I want to go on into the MA. ; please advice.  (#851) 2005-10-16

I am an unmarried female with some medical condition that my doctors have ordered me to be on birth control pills. I have been taking them for the past 3 months and their timings is very strict, in other words I have to take them at the exact time every day! I have been taking them at 4pm EST and with Ramadan starting I do not know what to do. Please advice?!  (#843) 2005-10-05

My mother has contracted an illness recently and her treating doctors have asked her not to fast during Ramadan. She has no source of income and is dependant on myself and my brothers. I feel myself responsible to compensate for her missing fast. I would like to know if I can pay this debt in her name in terms of money to the poor and how would I calculate the exact amount. I would also like to know the du’as the Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) used to ask for the sick people.  (#844) 2005-10-05

I am fasting, and working from 8.30 to 5.30pm. Can I read The Holy Qur’an at lunch time? (#845) 2005-10-05

I just have a question on one of the sayings that my teacher has up in here classroom, and it says it's from the Qur’an but I'm not sure if it's true. It says "he who makes his companions laugh deserves paradise" Koran. If it's not true, could you please advise me on how to approach her and tell her it's wrong. (#839) 2005-10-04

If get my period during the day I am fasting, do I have to make up that day even if it was just before Iftar (Maghrib)? (#840) 2005-10-04

I am in the process of undergoing an IVF treatment with my wife and I have been asked to undergo a semen analysis for that purpose. This test will happen during Ramadan and I have no other alternatives. On the other hand I have never missed my fasting during the holy month without a plausible reason. I would like to know if submitting a sperm sample is permissible in this situation and if that will affect my fast (i.e if my fast will count).  (#841) 2005-10-04

What if a person is cannot fast and was advised by her doctor, but cannot afford to pay one's meal for the month what can they do (#842) 2005-10-04

Can I make istikharah for a career choice; if so, how can I do it? (#832) 2005-09-28

What is aqiqah? (#833) 2005-09-28

I want to get a tattoo on my arms with inscription of a Quar’anic verse. I need to do that in order to constantly remind me to do what my religion asks me to do. (#834) 2005-09-28

What is the view of Islam if a Muslim chooses to use "adult toys" to please his wife during sexual intimacy (i.e. to arouse the woman before intercourse)? The reason why I ask this question is that my wife doesn’t get aroused on time and by the time she get arouse, I have ejaculated (released). So I feel she did not have maximum pleasure as me. Thus I am concerned. So I will like to know if it is halaal to use Adult toys such as vibrator etc to get her arouse to the peak before penetration. Please respond and advice me with evidence from the holy Qur'an. Thank you and May Allah reward all efforts towards the deen of Allah here and the hereafter. (#835) 2005-09-28

As a gynecologist many women come to me asking for abortion as they cant afford the child or of a fear that the child will be neglected as they are working mothers. In the light of Qur’an and sunnah what should we do in such situation. (#836) 2005-09-28

Doe Islam believe in racial holy war? (#837) 2005-09-28

I am a 16 year old Christian from Texas us and I was wondering if you could explain what Islam actually is; it is confusing when people here tell me about it. (#838) 2005-09-28

Is there a good website that I can go to for proper information on the raising of a Muslim boy: i.e., pregnancy, labor, after the birth, circumcision etc.? (#826) 2005-09-19

I am asking this question for the second time. I am a born-Muslim. But I have spent some without performing sajdah (prostration). Should I pay for the missed years by performing each prayer twice? If there are any other alternatives, please let me know about them. May Allah reward you for considering my question.  (#827) 2005-09-19

Is there any Islamic Date Forbidden for Nikah( solemnization of marriage)? Some people say Nikah should not be performed on 8th or 28th of a month. Also I have heard that one should perform Nikah before 15th of a month, is it right? (#828) 2005-09-19

My wife thinks that cause of her school she cannot and she is not able to fast this coming ramadan, she cannot concentrate in class cause she is hungry. What is the HUKEM (Islamic rule) for these who seek excuses to eat in Ramadhan; is it haram for me to be with her? I can add my wife doesn’t pray at all and she also doesn’t think she will one day. But is a muslim; please help as I’m not comfortable in sharing life with a kafir (disbeliever); I don’t want my future kids to grow like her?  (#829) 2005-09-19

Al-hamdu lillah my 7 & 5 year old sons both know how to offer their prayers. As a boost of encouragement and responsibility, I will sometimes ask them to lead family prayers (which they do well and enjoy). It is permissible for myself and my spouse to pray behind a minor? (#830) 2005-09-19

I posted my question like 3 times before; I really need your guidance and opinion about my problem. I have been married for a year and half; now my husband talks to a non-muslim friend; she doesn’t know that he's a muslim or married; the fact that he talks to her almost daily bothers me a lot and caused us problems in our life, because he thinks that it's not haram that he talks to her and all that; so I was just wondering can a muslim man have a female friend and talk to her almost daily (nothing that has to do with work because they don't work together anyway, as he says she's a college friend)? And if there is anything that I can tell him to convince him that it's not permissible and that he's hurting me by doing this?  (#831) 2005-09-19

Hello. I am a Muslim IB Diploma student in high school writing my extended essay on the comparison of the notion of sin between Christianity and Islam. I would like to verify something that I heard regarding sin and hope that you can provide me with textual evidence from the Quran and Hadith to support this idea so that I may use it in my essay. I heard that if a Muslim intends on doing a good deed but is unable to do it, he is awarded by Allah for having the intention to do it. If he carries out his intentions and does the deed, then he is awarded ten times more for having done it. If however the individual intends on doing something sinful but does not carry it out, it is not considered a sin as the deed was not done. Instead, the person is awarded for not carrying out the sin. But if the sin is carried out, then it counts only once, in order to make sure that the good deeds outweigh the bad ones on the Day of Resurrection. Is this true according to Islamic belief? Please answer as soon as possible. Your answer is highly appreciated.  (#825) 2005-09-07

In day today, can we clean the house after sunset.I heard that we should not clean the house when magrib falls? (#818) 2005-09-04

How are we supposed to perform ritual bath (ghusl)? (#819) 2005-09-04

I have been courting a sister for 6 months, and I have asked her about her sexual history. She lied and said that she was a virgin. Last night, I have spoken with her in the middle of the night, and she admits to losing her virginity in a previous relationship with her boyfriend. Now, I feel hurt, bothered, and betrayed. I am sure that some trust has been lost. I really like this girl, but I do not know what to do? Do you have any advice for me? (#820) 2005-09-04

Do the gems & precious stones play any role in fate of our life? Can we believe in stones and can we wear it; is it considered as shirk? (#821) 2005-09-04

Many sisters feel under pressure to buy western style clothing und especially underwear to be attractive for their husbands at home. Yet they feel not in agreement to clothe in this manner. What are the scholars opinions? (#822) 2005-09-04

Am I allowed to get my private parts waxed by someone? (#823) 2005-09-04

Is smoking Hookah allowed in Islam? (#824) 2005-09-04

I have been married for 5 years now Allhumdillah. I have never entered my wife since she was very afraid of the pain no matter what we tried. She has made du’as to Allah in tahajjud for years and Allah accepted it and we have a son due anyday now it is a miracle of Allah. Problem I have is my sexual desires I have been trying to control it for years now. before I marriage I was viewing pornography and masturbation which was extremely hard to let go off without having any means of satisfying even after marriage, I know this is a test from Allah but sometimes I admit I'm forced to masturbate, you know here in US everywhere you look you'll see women exposing themselves even if I put my gaze down. Sexual thoughts go through my mind and I say Astaghfiurullah when it comes. I was even thinking about getting nikah to a second wife secretly with 2 witnesses without letting my wife know since I love her deeply and I know she will let me go if she finds out. So I'm really in need of help. Once the the baby is born I'm hoping she will let me enter but that’s still months away and I'm not sure if she will or not. I really need help.  (#814) 2005-08-28

I know this girl who has basically done her nikah with this man who is her first cousin; she does not get along with him and knows it will not work, they have not spoken in over a year and also before she got married with him he used to abuse her physically; when she confronted him about it he didn’t really care; and said its in the past and showed no remorse. She wants to end it but is not sure how her parents will react and whether the nikah is still valid?  (#815) 2005-08-28

I have heard that bashfulness and shyness are wonderful qualities praised in the Qur’an and sunnah, but what about when someone has the quality of not being shy, but bold and brave; such as when a guy wants to socialize with friend of the same gender and opposite gender or speaking out in public etc.? (#816) 2005-08-28

What are the ways in which a Muslim may worship Allah? Is salaat the only way of worship or does it include dhikr, dawah, etc.? Please list various ways. (#817) 2005-08-28

Is there any du’a or prayer that can overcome my anxiety and nervousness? .Sir, you have helped me in becoming a better and a stronger Muslim; pls. help me to overcome this problem of mine. May Allah reward you for your work—aameen.  (#811) 2005-07-28

I would like you to clarify something for me. Is it enough to declare the shahaadah (testimony of faith) by oneself order to be converted into Islam or is it considered obligatory to make the declaration in front of two witnesses? (#813) 2005-07-28

If it is proved that a Muslim carried out the London bombings and I know something about him. Shall I call the non-Muslim police to arrest him? Or hand him to a Muslim scholar or imam who can talk to him and convince him no to do that heinous act again? Does this case have an origin in Fiqh literature? Please answer as soon as possible. (#810) 2005-07-21

I want to ask about for one who done anal sex with his wife without knowing that it is haraam but after knowledge he fear Allah and promised to not do it again, what should he do? Should he has to fast for a period? or anything else? Please answer in detail. (#802) 2005-07-15

Can a Muslim woman recite the adhkaar during her menstruation? (#803) 2005-07-15

Who was Nafeesatul Misriyyah ? (#804) 2005-07-15

I am a university Student studying mathematics. I plan on becoming a mathematics Professor, insha'Allah. I love solving mathematics problems. My question is, will I have the chance to do mathematics problems in Jannah, if I ever enter it? I think I would love doing that because math is simply a part of my life, especially after reading about Isaac Newton and the Greek mathematicians.  (#805) 2005-07-15

I am 18-years old. I was giving a 6-year old little girl a ride for fun on my back while I was doing push-ups when they came to my house for a party. She said it was fun and I thought it would be fun to play with little kids. They are so cute. She, the little girl, told her mother and the little girl told me her mother said she is not supposed to go near boys and she was kind of upset. I don't understand why. Was I doing something wrong? The little girl is not even mature. Is her mother who is my tenant right to be angry or does she just has a perverted mind? Please help me out.  (#806) 2005-07-15

Is it a sin to suck the breasts of wife as an act of foreplay?  (#807) 2005-07-15

Is there any du’a (supplication) to find a good husband?  (#808) 2005-07-15

In Islam if I, a girl, like a guy is she allowed to ask for his hand? But what if that is not how it works in the culture does Islam want you to follow culture? (#809) 2005-07-15

Is it permissible to eat and drink after having sex and before purifying oneself by bathing? (#796) 2005-06-24

After the age of puberty is it ok for a Muslim brother and sister to sleep in the same room as each other?  (#797) 2005-06-24

What are the Islamic rulings for a woman if she wants to give birth in water? Is it allowed? (#798) 2005-06-24

I try to pray Zuhar and Asr prayers at work with another Muslim friend of mine. We pray it as Jamaat. I wanted to verify that is this valid. I mean can we do jamaat with only two people? Can I also pray the same way at home when the second person is my wife instead of another male? Jazaak Allah. (#799) 2005-06-24

I converted to Islam from orthodox Christianity. I would like to know what act(s) besides hajj can completely remove my past sins? I am praying everyday and Islam is the love of my life but I still feel a lot of guilt. (#800) 2005-06-24

I am a 30 years non-married male and was working in a company with a 27 years married Muslim lady. During one-year job I never said anything wrong to her or touched her. She was then treating me as her brother. After that company bankrupted, she asked me to help her to get a job. In this new job, we had to work during the weekends. Her husband and family trusted me. She and I were the only persons in the building during weekends and she was sitting just next to me. Next weekend, she went into the toilet and I followed her there to see her naked. I went in the toilet next to her and raised myself up to see her, she suddenly lifted her face up and saw me and screamed a lot. I begged her to forgive me but she shouted at me and ran out of the building. I didn’t touch her at all. She then reported this to police and police formally warned me, that if I tried to harass her again, they will take me to court. I want to say sorry to her and her husband but don’t know how to face them, they cannot believe on this ashamed act. I did istakhara, but couldn’t see anything. I am really stressed and feeling guilty, doing istaghfar a lot. It affected my life and work a lot. Now eight months have now gone, but this incident is stuck to my mind, she changed her mobile number. Shall I go to her house and beg them to forgive me or forget this which is impossible for me. (#801) 2005-06-24

I am a revert of two and a half years standing. I am left-handed. I know the sunnah practices of eating with the right hand, cleansing oneself with the left hand and so on. My question is with regard to writing. Is it okay for me to write with my left hand? I have managed to learn to eat with my right hand in imitation of the Prophet (SAW) but writing with my right hand would be nigh-on impossible for me. Please advise me.  (#789) 2005-06-16

Are there specific days in the week where Muslims should refrain from having sex with their wife? (#790) 2005-06-16

In the hadith that talks about the importance of inviting the poor to a walimah (wedding feast); what does it mean to be poor? Do you just have to invite? What if you invite and they don't come, what should you do? (#791) 2005-06-16

Is it permissible to make prayers or supplications in your own words during the fard prayers, I am asking this because I have heard a hadith in which a companion praises Allah Almighty in his own words after rising from ruku’ and the prophet(peace be upon him) approved of it. (#792) 2005-06-16

If someone has the habit of praying Tahajjud prayer; and yet, sometime he wake ups after the Fajr time has started but prayer in Mosque has not started, can he pray 2 or 4 rak’ahs after the Fajr time has started as Nawafil before joining the congregation in mosque? Or should he wait for the Sun rises and then pray these nawaafil with Ishraq? (#793) 2005-06-16

Please would you answer the following question which is causing rift in our marriage I’m sure there are many other couples in our situation. Can a wife beautify her self for her husband by for instance shaving her legs, arms? My wife has excessive hair and says it is bid’ah (innovation) to do so because it was never practiced in Islam; I find it repulsive. Please clarify this point for me for I cannot bear the constant arguments.  (#794) 2005-06-16

I ask Allah to reward you the best for doing this job. I will ask you about issue: my wife committed adultery with another Muslim (who also married). We have been married for 4 years and we don't have kids (All praises to Allah). She told me that because that person threatened her to call me and tell me that my wife is cheating on me. Any way, she told me that she will never do it again. Honestly, I ask Allah to forgive her but for me it is very difficult because every time I look to her face I saw somebody else between us. I decide to divorce her without hurting her; the question, please, if I divorce her do I have to give her the mu’akhkhar (deferred portion of dower) which is 15, 000 dollars.  (#795) 2005-06-16

What is your opinion regarding the concept/practice of "woman-led prayers", and the idea that imams do not necessarily need to be male (as there is no explicit designation of an imam's gender in the Qur'an/hadiths)? (#788) 2005-06-10

I really need your help...I am a 35 years old and alhamdou lillah (by the grace of Allah), I just finished my studies. I am now a married doctor (with a French Muslimah), living in France, and I find myself confronted to 2 choices : First, moving with my wife and children to a Muslim country to be free to practice my religion (Saudi Arabia or Syria for example) or go back to my birth country (Tunisia) where there are some restrictions (prohibition of hijab) to take care of my parents (who are ill and refuse to leave the country) and my family ? (#786) 2005-06-10

If I perform Wudhu (ablution) and then applies COVERUP my skin for Vitiligo, can I pray for a period of time until I break my wudhu? (#787) 2005-06-10

My question is that if the Nikah (Islamic marriage contract) of a girl took place during her period; is it valid? (#781) 2005-05-26

Is oral sex considered as 'zina' (fornication)? (#782) 2005-05-26

Thanks for your reply to my question # 776 regarding ‘Umra and tawaf. I forgot to ask, should the tawaf be completed with sa'y or could the tawaf stand on its own. If so, must I finish the 7 rounds or can I do any amount of extra tawaf? (#783) 2005-05-26

I am asking this question on behalf of my mother,she is in her menopausal age around 52,she wish to go for Haj,none of her mehram is going with her,she is going with her cousin(female) and cousin\'s son who she is considering as her mehram,is this OK?she really wants to go for Haj and she says after it won’t be possible. Please guide us.  (#780) 2005-05-20

In the Qur’an it is stated that the Jews think of Ezra as son of god, but the Jews say they don’t think him as son of god but rather as a prophet. Please help me out. I don’t want to be amongst the disbelievers after having knowledge.  (#777) 2005-05-19

Should we only look to Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) and try to learn lessons from his life and obstacles and implement his actions, personality traits, thinking and judgment into our lives or should we also look to the other prophets from before him like Abraham, Solomon, Jacob, Joseph, David, Lot etc. and learn lessons from their lives as well? Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him) was Allah's most beloved creation. Do we really need to know anything about the others or care about them? (#778) 2005-05-19

I have asked this question twice before but have had no response. Can you please tell me that when a women is pregnant in Islam is she allowed to have sex with her husband? If they are allowed when does it need to stop? Does having sex during pregnancy harm the baby? Please answer my question as me and my husband are quarrelling all the time about this topic.  (#779) 2005-05-19

It is said that when a good person dies, they see where they are going and so they are buried as quickly as possible and that if a bad person dies, he also sees where he is going and wouldn’t want to be buried quickly. My question is if the soul sees and knows where it’s going, does it matter how long a person takes to bury the body? (#773) 2005-05-12

Can you please do me the favor of answering me? Is it wrong to sit or sleep with your feet facing the east? (#774) 2005-05-12

Can you tell me if one must say a niyyah (intention) for Witr prayer either in the isha or the tahajjud prayer?  (#775) 2005-05-12

I have asked this question several times but I don’t know why I’m not answered. May I ask again? After completing my hajj, can I perform Umrah on behalf of my deceased mother; if yes, what’s the benefit for either for myself or my mother, since as I understand Umrah is for expiation of sins. Also I noticed a lot of people doing extra tawaf on a daily basis, is this permissible? Can a person make tawaf on behalf of their deceased or living relatives? What is the rule here?  (#776) 2005-05-12

Sometimes, during Salah, I suspect that urine has come out of my private part. But after Salah, when I check it, I see no sign of urine. Do I need to perform Salah again assuming that the little amount of urine has actually dried up when I checked after Salah?  (#770) 2005-05-05

I have a question about where to place our hands after the opening takbir (takbirat al-ihram) in Salah (Prayer): Are we supposed to place our hands below the navel or above or on our chest? Someone told me the other day that it was incorrect to place the hands below the navel as we are required to place it on our chest? I have been brought up in the Hanafi school, and I have been taught all along to place my hands on below my navel while praying. I would like you to clarify this issue for me.  (#771) 2005-05-05

I have asked this question before but you did not answer me. My son is married to a non-Muslim and he is not practicing his religion Islam. He runs a restaurant and sells halal meat but also sells liquor to the public. He also has a very small pet dog in the house and although the dog does everything out of the house and bathe every week, still as far as I am aware that is not allowed in Islam. Please tell me if under these circumstances, I should move out of his house? I am 60 years old and divorced (female).  (#772) 2005-05-05

What is Islamic view on women traveling alone? Is having a mahram ( a close male relative or husband) a prerequisite even if the woman can take care of herself and take necessary precautions? I am planning to attend an Islamic program in New York for 2 weeks but couldn't find a mahram or even a sister to come along. I have made the necessary arrangements with the organizer to even fetch me from the airport. My parents don't allow because I will be a way for more than 3 days and without a mahram. Could I still attend the program without my parent's blessings? By the way, I'm 29 yrs old. (#768) 2005-04-28

"Only two things are obligatory upon the woman; keeping herself ready and prepared [sexually] for her husband and staying in his house." Source: "Commentary on the Forty Hadith of al-Nawawi" - Jamaal al Din Zarabozo, p. 18: My question: Does she have to be ready at any cost? Does she have any excuse and if so what are the excuses? What’s obligatory on us from their side? (#769) 2005-04-28

What is the Islamic ruling regarding in-vitro fertilization? We have not been able to conceive a child for the last 6 years and neither of us have a serious medical condition (#767) 2005-04-22

Could I please get some clarification on the practice of Khatm, which involves people gathering people together to read the entire Qur'an and make du’a in the presence of a religious, or pious person such as a hafiz (one who has memorized the Qur’an) with the belief/ idea that his presence might bring greater baraka (spiritual grace) to the gathering or believing that the du’a thus made will be more likely be carried by the angels and accepted by Allah. To my understanding, there is nothing wrong in a gathering where the Qur'an is recited; this is a good thing which the Prophet (saw) I understand to have recommended and encouraged. However, the concept of bringing a pious person who has great Islamic knowledge with the idea that it will bring greater baraka is bid’a and maybe a form of shirk as it suggests the belief that this person’s presence might bring us closer to Allah or may likely bring greater blessings from Him? Also, could I get clarification about the practice of gathering for Khatm, where after having read the Qur'an and offering a du’a for the deceased, they offer food and people eat the same while believing that such a food has been blessed?  (#766) 2005-04-21

My question is, is it permissible to visit your father's grave and ask him to pray to Allah for the good health of his living relatives, such as his wife? (#765) 2005-04-21

Is it permissible for a Muslim to send condolences to the family, on the death of a Christian friend/colleague or a neighbor? If so is there any authentic evidence from the life of the Prophet (SAW) that he did that?  (#763) 2005-04-14

What are the names of the family of Prophet Ibrahim, upon whom be Allah’s blessings and peace? (#762) 2005-04-14

As Muslims, what opinion should we hold of the Holocaust? Some religious people I know said that it was a good thing. Surely, Islam does not teach the mass murder of millions of people as a good thing?  (#757) 2005-03-31

For the past 3.5 years I've been suffering from a condition called Scalp Folliculitis. This is an inflammation of the hair follicles caused by excessive heat, sweat, and at times this problem of mine becomes an infection because of the heat and bacteria triggered by the sweat. When I first discovered the problem I began to wear cotton scarves and cut my hair very short, and thinned my hair as well to accommodate my hijaab. This worked and gave me some relief at the time. I took the medications prescribed by my dermatologist and Alhamdulilah my condition had disappeared. However, he did tell me that this condition is known to be chronic and that this would not be the last time I'd see it. Being optimistic, I didn't believe him, and put my trust in Allah SWT and believed I wouldn't have this problem again. To my dismay, I continually had this problem and it re-appeared time and time again over the past 3 years. Since then, I've ingested so many antibiotics that I've developed an immunity to the medication and now they don't give me any relief. I sought the advice of 2 other dermatologists each gave me the same diagnosis. Because I work full-time, I find it very difficult to wear my scarf now as it irritates my skin and worsens my problem. I don't know what to do. I know I have to wear my hijaab, but then it's so itchy and intolerable. My dermatologist told me that if I take it off for a couple of months, I'd notice a difference in my scalp. I would like to take off my hijaab to heal my scalp, and then return to it as soon as I'm healed, but I don't know if this is the best decision; please advice.  (#758) 2005-03-31

I am a Muslim girl and live in a Muslim country. My question is regarding the ghusl (ritual bath). Is it compulsory for a Muslim to remove hair from some body parts before performing ghusl? Is ghusl without doing that is acceptable?  (#759) 2005-03-31

Why there is so much fear from God? We should love the God not be scared from him. (#760) 2005-03-31

I have been engaged with a Muslim lady. Although I don't have any contact with her but can I think about her and take her photograph with me. (#755) 2005-03-15

Dear Scholar, I am hoping that you will please answer this since it is very important. I have read that divorce pronounced by force or under duress (hence having no prior intention) is not valid. If during some fight the wife forces husband physically/emotionally (by grabbing his shirt collar etc) and repeatedly asks him to end the marriage and in turn he looses control in anger also and says the words of divorce .. will that be a valid divorce?? He had no prior intention of this and wife's forcing caused him to loose control etc. She admits to the fact and both of them regret the incident. I would highly appreciate your advice.  (#756) 2005-03-15

In the grave, a pleasant young person will come. When asked, who are you. He will respond: I am your good deeds. I will keep you company till the Day of Judgement. My question is, how do we hasten to do good deeds and what are good deeds? (#753) 2005-03-10

I have a debt which I owe a relative. I have clear intention to pay it off and the relative trusts in me to pay it back whenever. During Ramadhan, I wanted to do good and I pledged a big amount to a charity. I paid half that amount and will shortly pay the other half. Did I do something wrong, that is against the teaching of the Prophet(saw) ? Should I have instead paid my debt down? Should I use the second payment to pay my debt or should I fulfill my promise to the charity? (#754) 2005-03-10

I was on a train in a carriage with no other people. A frightening looking man came up to me and asked me if I was a Muslim. I was afraid he would harm me if I said yes. So I said no. I feel absolutely terrible that I said I was not a Muslim. Will I be punished for saying I was not a Muslim? How should I repent for this terrible mistake?  (#752) 2005-03-08

When a person asks where they will go after death, is the correct answer heaven or hell? Heaven, hell, and purgatory exist in the Catholic religion. Is it wrong to state that in Christianity there is heaven, hell and purgatory AND compared to Islam there is only heaven or hell? (#751) 2005-02-25

Are Muslims allowed to have sexual intercourse during Muharram? (#749) 2005-02-17

I'm living in France and I have a daughter (13 years old). As you know this country doesn't allow women to wear hijaab at school or at work since September 2004. I want my daughter be free to practice her Deen (faith) and to be a good Muslimah striving in the way of ALLAH. I know that wearing Hijaab is an important religious requirement mandated by the Qur’an. In such case, is performing hijrah (emigrating) and moving to another country (Syria, Canada, etc.) considered an obligation? (#750) 2005-02-17

I have a daughter of 11.5 yrs of age and would like to know exactly how to approach her and advise her about menstruation. I am very shy, but I want to try to tell her before hand and to give her all information pertaining to what the religion has asked us to know on this subject. (#747) 2005-02-10

I'm a 33 years old man married to a Muslimah from a different culture. We have been married for 7 years and we've one child (5 years old). I wish to settle down in my birth country to take care of my parents cause they need me (they are ill specially my father who can't work anymore). The problem is that my wife refuses to follow me saying that we cannot give a good education to our child if he grows up there (which is false). It's true that my birth country suffers from problems of human rights (but we can practise our Deen). She said she will ask for divorce if I go there. Does she have the right to ask for a divorce? I don't want to choose between my parents and my wife. I don't know what to do! Please help me with this. (#748) 2005-02-10

Does Islam believe in the covenant God made through Moses (The 10 commandment).If yes, what Islam has to say about the 10th commandment (i.e. to desire another man's wife)?  (#746) 2005-02-09

I am a Muslim and my father was Hindu am I allowed to attend his Funeral? (#745) 2005-02-07

I’ve asked this several times but haven’t been replied to...I want to know if plucking of eyebrows is haraam in Islam. Some sources say it is and some say it isn’t. I’m really confused. Secondly in Islam the woman supposed to cover her face or is to cover her face from below her eyes down that is only her eyes can be seen; or is it good enough to cover her hair wearing a hijaab ? But then why is it that it is not allowed to cover your face during the hajj? (#742) 2005-02-04

Can you explain how one can perform istikharah Prayer? (#743) 2005-02-04

We recently got married in a US court, even though we haven't started living together, I want to know do we also need to do an Islamic Nikah ceremony or is our marriage valid; can we start living together? (#744) 2005-02-04

What does the word ikhlaas mean?  (#739) 2005-02-02

Sometimes, while sitting down I think to myself what if there is no such thing as ALLAH, but automatically I tell myself then how did this world came about and I am a believer in Allah and pray al-hamdu lillah. Is it haraam for me to think this without willingly coming to my mind and I know it is the devil what can do?  (#740) 2005-02-02

I am very desperate to know any du’a that I can pray after namaz (Prayer) so that I can get a good, respectable job. Please help me with this; I am sure many brothers and sisters would be interested to know about this. (#741) 2005-02-02

Does Islam permit Muslims to practice oral sex of any kinds, watch pornographic movies with one's legally married spouse? Pls. for the sake of Allah, enlighten me on this question. Do not ignore it. Because I just got married and like to know if it is okay to engage in the above practice as a Muslim. (#738) 2005-01-31

If Canada becomes an Islamic land, will the special tax on non-Muslims be imposed, and what of the non-Christian and non-Jewish peoples? (#737) 2005-01-29

I usually wear tie every week days during my office time. Recently when I went to our official mosque, I was objected by one of my senior colleague strongly that being a Muslim, I must not wear any tie on my shirt while praying! That has made me very upset. Anyway, could please kindly advise whether wearing a tie in Islam is prohibited or not? Will check your answer in social issues; I will appreciate your kind assistance & reply in the light of The Qur’an and Hadith in this regards. Many thanks.  (#736) 2005-01-28

In 2002 I took my shahada (testimony of faith) with you (Imam Kutty); I was just wondering if I need some sort of proof on paper. (#731) 2005-01-25

Does Islam permit a husband to shave his wife's pubic hair and visce versa? (#732) 2005-01-25

Does a woman have to do her wudhu (ablution) again if a non-mahram man (one who is not closely related in blood or marriage) sees her without her hijab? (#733) 2005-01-25

Is it true that the Shaytan excretes on a woman's head if she leaves her home without her head scarf?  (#734) 2005-01-25

I was just wondering if you are allowed to pray a prayer before its allotted time if you know that you will miss the allowed prayer time, (due to a class at that time) (#735) 2005-01-25

I've asked this question before but have not gotten a reply. Is it forbidden in Islam to have ones body tattooed?  (#729) 2005-01-24

I am married to my wife for more than five years. (1)We stayed engaged for at least one year. At the time of Nikah, her parents had set Mehr for around CAD15,000 (I didn't know what exactly about Mehr or amount). As soon as her parents mentioned about it, my parents were totally surprised and unaccepted, so they reduced to CAD7500 and my parents gave no answer. Next day when the topic came up and her parents wanted an answer, I suddenly replied little rudely mentioning should I have to steal from a bank or what. The next day her parents cancelled talks with me. My father spoke to her father for another meeting just to settle the talk between us but didn't bring up the topic of Mehr. Nonetheless, they accepted and set our wedding date and naively I went ahead and got married. On the night of wedding, I found from my wife that she is in her period cycle and we could not make love or have sex. What should have been my action on this? (2)I ignored this build-up in my mind and moved ahead with the relationship. At many occasions, during the five years, my wife had been very rude with me and I tried my best to explain and compromise. At certain instances I have yelled at her and she has yelled back at me over and over many various times and topics. The main reason is that almost all the time over five years, I have not found things according to my standards or ways. For example, if I tell her to do something like cleaning house, keeping clothes neatly or washing dishes properly, she would either yell at me saying she doesn't have time or loose her anger by shouting on our children. She has never ever up to now kept any part of the household and/or bringing up children as I would like to see it but in her own way !(i.e. she cleaned house or bathroom or dishes her way that she sees it clean, but when I see it it is not clean and really it is not clean!) I have told her too many times to stop yelling or being rude to me and our children. She becomes okay for couple of days and says she loves me and all, but then again she becomes the same. This has happened again and again. During the five years, I have given all I could and helped her my best to be a loyal husband but now I cannot take it anymore of her yelling back at me or being rude at me. We have three children now 4+, 2+ and 1+, all boys. She is not working and I know staying home and taking care of 3 children is like a full-time job but I feel she should be taking care of children and household properly. What should I do next? (#730) 2005-01-24

Can a woman read Eid salah at home, or is it advisable that she goes to the mosque to pray in a congregation? (#728) 2005-01-21

I have been part of the Jami Mosque/Islamic Foundation Jamaat for the past 30 years, with exposure to Scholars who have been imams at the Madsajid it was never mentioned about fasting for the first 9 days of Zul-Hajjah. Is this a new thing; what are the references re: fasting on these days? (#727) 2005-01-18

My family believe that it is Islamically wrong to brush one's hair or clip one's nails at night time. Is this true, or is it a cultural construction?  (#723) 2005-01-17

Could you please tell me what is the procedure of getting a nikaah (marriage) done in Toronto; do I have to get a court marriage done first then nikaah? Or can I get a nikaah done first without a court marriage? (#724) 2005-01-17

I am very embarrassed about asking this question: Is it haram for me to stick my finger in my wife's anus while we are having sex? (#725) 2005-01-17

My parents would like to know if sacrificing a goat is obligatory based on household income or on individual income (since they both work)? Therefore whether they each sacrifice a goat because they both work or one based on the total income is not clear to us and therefore need your help. (#726) 2005-01-17

On Eid-ul-adha, is there a different way of sacrificing without killing an animal? (#722) 2005-01-15

Please let us know the benefits of Dhul-hijjah. I heard the first ten days are special but not sure how and what I should do. (#721) 2005-01-14

My question is that we have a lot of debt but in spite of that we manage to pay our zakat. Are we eligible for the animal slaughtering for Dhul Hijjahj? Please answer my question; it will be appreciated. (#720) 2005-01-11

I am a Muslim lady I know a Christian man, and I am helping him to revert to Islam, he has told me he is not circumcised, should he circumcise before becoming Muslim or after? (#719) 2005-01-10

What is wrong with swearing? I find it enjoyable. It relieves stress, and helps me express my feelings even if I don't say it to someone directly or face-to-face. (#718) 2005-01-08

Could you please help me with my questions: 1. If you urine on your hands/ feet can you wash them with water only or do you also need to use soap so they are considered clean? Does this apply to areas on your body covered with sperm or pre sperm? 2. If an area of carpet has dry urine/ excrement /sperm/ pre sperm and you walked over it with wet feet would your Wudu be valid so you can perform Salaat? And if you need to wash something off how would you do it? 3. I know that there is dry urine on the carpet at home and I have walked over it with wudu (wet feet) and gone and prayed at the local mosque. When I now go to that mosque I feel guilty that my salaat will not be accepted as the carpet at the mosque is dirty/ impure because of walking over the dry urine on the carpet at home, and I feel my wudu is broken. Some of my family members have also gone to different mosques, and I now feel that their carpets are impure and I cannot concentrate when I pray there. Could you please answer these 3 questions for me because they are affecting my Salaat.  (#717) 2005-01-06

Is acupuncture considered as Halal (lawful) or Haram (unlawful)? My wife is thinking of going through this procedure for pregnancy reasons. It has been proven --Allah a’lam (Allah knows best)-- in UK that acupuncture will help in getting pregnant. I have the documents if you would like to go through it. Please let us know the Islamic position on this subject.  (#715) 2005-01-05

How are we supposed to look at the natural disasters such as Tsunami? Are they punishments or simply trials and tests? Are we justified in characterizing them as signs of the Hour?  (#716) 2005-01-05

Can you pray Jumu’ah by yourself? (#713) 2005-01-02

The substitute for Wudu is Tayyamum. Can you please let me know what is the substitute for Ghusl? (#714) 2005-01-02

In my local Masjid the Adhan and the iqamah are done for Maghrib without any gap for extra prayer. When I use to live with my family in Jeddah, they taught me certain things from a Hanafi school of thought however I used to perform the optional two unit of prayers as per the local practices of Jeddah. From a fiqh point of view, can I still pray that optional unit of prayer in my local Masjid here [a certain masjid in the GTA ] ? Or do I leave those two units since it has to be performed between the Azan and the final call for prayer? (#708) 2004-12-20

I heard in a discussion that four will be punished for the woman that does not wear Hijab (i.e. husband, father, brothers, and sons). Can you tell me if this is correct? (#709) 2004-12-20

I just wanted to ask a question about a matter concerning my friend. My friend is 17 years old and her mother has passed away quite some time ago. Ever since her mother passed away she has been assuming all her mother's duties. Her father has been cruel and unjust, he makes her do all the housework yet she never has any time to do anything for herself. She has a younger brother and sister, her father makes her take care of them too. Recently, my friend's father has been seeing an American Muslim woman in the kind of relationship between a boyfriend and girlfriend. My friend tried to confront her father yet it hasn't worked so far. What should she do? (#710) 2004-12-20

Do I have to divulge my past to a man that could possibly be my prospective husband? I am ashamed of some of the sins I have committed in my past and I have changed my life style drastically. Does he have the right to know if I don't feel comfortable sharing my past, and am afraid he will not talk to me anymore?  (#711) 2004-12-20

We are a couple trying to have a baby for the last 4 years and Allah did not allow it to happen yet. We have an option to do an In vitro fertilization. We have the money in a line of credit. Can we use this money even though we have a home mortgage and a credit card to pay every month? We would like to know what Islam say about it. Note that we are making our payments every month without any problems.  (#712) 2004-12-20

My father passed away last year and while we were at the grave at the time of the burial my Auntie said to look at the sky. She told us that everything was still. The clouds didn\'t seem to be moving, even though they move at a slow pace, I kept staring and maybe it was in my head, but it seemed that everything was at a stand still. What is the meaning behind this and is this even true or was it my imagination? I look forward to your reply and thank you for taking the time to read and respond. May Allah SWT bless you all for educating and helping your fellow Muslims along the right path. (#707) 2004-12-11

I am a Muslim and unfortunately due to having been raised in Europe and North America since I was nine years old, I do not know how to recite the prayer and would very much like to learn it. I do have a book, but I cannot read Arabic. Would you know of a tape that I could buy so that I can listen to while following it in my book for the meanings and learn it. Please help me, if you can.  (#702) 2004-11-25

I am looking for an important advice from you; I have given divorce two times to my wife. Then after 6 months of my 2 times divorce she did nikah (marriage contract) with another person. She has not started living with her since nikah because he lived in different country and she lives in Canada. She wanted to sponsor him that is why she married with him. She just realized that she have done wrong, now she want to come back to me. My question is this that the nikah that she did with other person what is the Islamic position of that nikah and if she is coming back to me , What I have to do, Do I have to do nikah with her again or what; please advice.  (#703) 2004-11-25

I was wondering if it is permissible to eat the chicken liver etc. if it is from a halal chicken, as I am a chef and am required to taste certain foods.  (#704) 2004-11-25

My dad has a store. He gives us money when he fells like. But once he told us that we can take some money when we need it. So now whenever we go to store we take $5 OR $10; would this be considered a sin or stealing on our part if we did so?  (#705) 2004-11-25

I became Muslim 3years ago--alhamdu li Allah. I am married now and have a one year old baby girl. My parents are Catholics. My question is X-Mass is around the corner now. I really need your advice in visiting my parents for X-MAS. My parents have been good so far about me being Muslim. It was hard at the beginning. Can you please get back to me in this regard? (#706) 2004-11-25

My relative has recently passed away. My question is what is his wife supposed to do?We have been told that for 4 months and 10 days, my relative must wear white clothing and also that she must not put any oil in her hair. Is this an obligation under Islamic law?  (#701) 2004-11-23

Mr. Ahmad Kutty, I was wondering, what kind of a Muslim are you? Sunni, Shia, Ismaili etc.? If you ar Sunni, what I mam do you follow: Hanafi, Shafi?? I was wondering, because I read in the answer to a question that "shaving the armpits and pubic hair is considered highly recommended." I thought it was fard and your prayers do not count if you do not cut it within 40 days. It surprised me to see that you said it is only "highly recommended". Please respond. (#698) 2004-11-17

A friend of mine keeps on visiting her cousin's grave saying that she is trying to deal with the loss of such a close relative. My question is, does Islam advise and encourage people to visit graves and recite the Qur’an? (#699) 2004-11-17

Do I have to change my name if I convert to Islam? (#700) 2004-11-17

I am desperate for an answer and I sent you my question twice without an answer. Please do answer. Question: My brother use to send me lots of gifts (perfume, travel tickets, cell phones, body creams, cash money). I found out that my brother income is HARAM. Also lots of people were financially broken because of him. What does Islam say about the stuff that I received from? I have already used the travel tickets and part of the perfume but I still have stuff such as Digital camera, cell phones. What do I have to do? Also, I would like to know what am I supposed to do with the money that I received from and I already spent?  (#697) 2004-11-16

I have recently married. Her proof of virginity is questionable for me as I did not see or felt anything in the first and second nights. The 3rd night when I went to take a bath and come back she showed me the proof. Can I trust what she showed me that she is truthfull. Why not the first night. I like her so much and I am just dying to be able to trust her, however I do not want to live with this question in mind for the rest of my life that maybe she was not virgin and she did not have a clean, healty, blessing type of life prior to her marriage with me. I do not know which one God wants me to do, plus even if God wants me to proceed with the marriage, I am going to feel comfortable as I have already started giving her kind of hard time for some other things which I know it is because I have lost my trust towards her. Please advise as I have to know this. (#696) 2004-11-12

I have a follow up question to your answer regarding food prepared by Americans. I enjoy Thai and Indian food. It just dawned on me that at restaurants they may likely be prepared by Buddhist or Hindu cooks. Should I enquire if this is so? (#694) 2004-11-09

I work for a large global organization that has a charitable donation program that allows employees to make contributions and have the company match it up to a certain limit. I did a search for Islamic charities and found one that was focused on zakat funds. My question is this, does the amount that is matched by my company count towards the zakat that I have to pay, even though I am not paying it? I like to pay my Zakat during Ramadan, so I would really appreciate it if you could respond ASAP.  (#695) 2004-11-09

I hear people talking about Ghusl (ritual bath) and I don't know what it is. I usually take my normal shower (everyday). Is Ghusl a specific way of taking a shower? Is there a specific way to take a shower in Islam?  (#691) 2004-11-04

I am a Muslim from the former Soviet Union. Unfortunately I had never had an opportunity to pray my salah in a mosque back in my country. I pray at home here, but at work time I want to visit a local mosque for zuhr and afternoon prayers. My problem is that I do not know the proper aadaab (etiquettes) of entering a mosque for salah. Please advise and instruct me ASAP what to do and how to behave. I am sunni-hanafi. Allah bless you for your instructions. (#692) 2004-11-04

If someone who is fasting allowed to use ear and eye drop medication? Also, nasal sprays for allergy/sinus problems? (#693) 2004-11-04

I was wondering if it is haraam (forbidden) to wear nail polish when you pray? (#689) 2004-11-02

We want to perform the nikah (marriage ceremony) and waleemah (wedding reception) during the month of Ramadhan; taking place -insha-allah after Maghrib; is this permissible? (#690) 2004-11-02

Does Islam permit a man and a woman to get to know each other for the purpose of marriage e.g. by talking over the telephone, meeting etc. and can you talk to the opposite sex during Ramadan. (#685) 2004-11-01

I would like to know if one is fasting during sickness (like having cold, flu etc.) if they throw up does that break their fast?  (#686) 2004-11-01

I understand that women are allowed to remove facial hair if it makes them look like a male in any way but are they allowed to remove hair from their arms and legs. If they are allowed to remove hair form arms and legs are they allowed to use a blade? (#687) 2004-11-01

My son aged 12, attends a school where a senior Muslim student leads the Jumu’ah Salat. The prayer is however held while my son's classes are in session. His teachers may grant him permission to leave class but he will miss work that affects his grades. Kindly give your advice. (#688) 2004-11-01

If you are fasting and get your period during mid-day, are you supposed to maintain your fast? I have been told that if you get your period after noon, you must keep your fast. (#681) 2004-10-26

Is a wife on her menstruation allowed to sleep next to her fasting husband? (#682) 2004-10-26

What if I give my entire Zakat money to my divorced sister who wants to try to make a living with that money ? She has no income and has two children but both still students.  (#683) 2004-10-26

My question is in regards to medication. My mother suffers from sever osteo-arthritis and it is very painful for her to stand and sit and perform daily functions. The pain is in her joints. I heard about this herbal medication called LaKota which will probably help in repairing her cartilage and easing the pain and possibly give her full recovery. The problem is that one ingredient within this medication known as Collagen Type II \"...is presently derived primarily from chicken sternum cartilage and has been scientifically proven to help arthritic (especially rheumatoid arthritis sufferers) patients repair damaged joint cartilage and prevent further joint cartilage degeneration\". My question is can I still get this medication for her to use or will it be haram? I look forward to your response. (#684) 2004-10-26

Is it possible to pray in an interfaith prayer room with images on the walls of flowers and scenery, without covering these images over?  (#678) 2004-10-22

I have asked this question before and need to know is a fasting wife allowed to sleep next to her fasting husband without the intention of sexual intercourse.  (#679) 2004-10-22

I have admitted to committing adultery but I did not have sex with the person. However, I have repented, and vow never to do it again. My husband is a good man and I love him dearly. He is willing to make it work. What should I do in this case? Am I to re perform Nikah? I do not know what my Islamic duty is in this case.  (#680) 2004-10-22

I understand that there is an obligation for all Muslims to read the Quran in full once in their life. Is it permissible for Muslims to read a transliterated version (i.e. Arabic language in roman script) in order to speed up the process. Will this be acceptable since you are reading it in Arabic, albeit phonetically. Please let me know as I am attempting to finish the Qur’an during Ramadhan but know I have a better chance if reading it in roman script.  (#676) 2004-10-21